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So, you're getting ready to walk down the aisle? Congratulations! Let me help make your special day even more unforgettable. As an experienced Wedding Officiant who's worked with couples from across New Jersey, NYC and Pennsylvania (and beyond!), I create truly remarkable experiences for my clients that reflect their individual values and traditions without fail.

If you want a wedding ceremony so eventful it'll be talked about for years to come—I'm here at www.weddingsbyaretha.com and I’m accepting bookings through 2025 right now – complete my website consultation form today; let's have an immediate Zoom meet-up where we can get started on some serious ceremony planning magic!

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Frequently asked questions

What is the typical price for your wedding services?

$1,250

What is the starting price for your wedding services?

$1,250

Does starting price include the ceremony rehearsal?

No

What is the starting price for ceremony rehearsals?

$200

What types of weddings and events do you provide services for?

Non-religious
Interfaith
Ceremony Rehearsal
Vow Renewal
Civil Union

What religious affiliations do you serve?

Anglican
Baptist
Earth-Based
No Denomination
Pagan

On average, how long are wedding ceremonies you officiate?

Less than 30 mins.

What languages do you speak?

English
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Reviews of Weddings By Aretha

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Aretha received glowing reviews from multiple couples for her exceptional officiating services. Known for her thoroughness, attention to detail, and ability to create personalized ceremonies, she was described as a key member of dream wedding teams who orchestrated beautiful and meaningful ceremonies. Aretha\'s professionalism, warmth, and unique performance style were highlighted, ensuring couples felt supported, guided, and deeply connected during their special day. Her dedication to crafting individualized vows and ceremonies tailored to each couple\'s love story left a lasting impression, making her highly recommended for weddings and elopements.

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Aretha received glowing reviews from multiple couples for her exceptional officiating services. Known for her thoroughness, attention to detail, and ability to create personalized ceremonies, she was described as a key member of dream wedding teams who orchestrated beautiful and meaningful ceremonies. Aretha\'s professionalism, warmth, and unique performance style were highlighted, ensuring couples felt supported, guided, and deeply connected during their special day. Her dedication to crafting individualized vows and ceremonies tailored to each couple\'s love story left a lasting impression, making her highly recommended for weddings and elopements.

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Emily M. Sent on 10/30/2023
5 out of 5 rating

Amazing Day

Working with Aretha was an absolute pleasure! Aretha is professional, caring, compassionate, and considerate, which is why we knew we were in the best of hands when choosing her as our officiant.

We began by having a preliminary meeting where she outlined how our day would go and asked if we had any visions or requests that she could accommodate. This ensured that our day would go exactly how we always envisioned it to go.

After agreeing to work with Aretha, she was available to answer any and all questions and was prompt with getting us those answers. Not only was she prompt in answering, but she also provided additional ideas and options that we did not even think of doing. This helped further personalize our big day.

On the day of the wedding, Aretha arrived early to make sure we were all set up appropriately prior to all our guests arriving. Her ceremony was as beautiful as we could have ever imagined and it helped make our wedding that much more perfect. I am convinced that if we worked with anyone else, the day would not have gone as smoothly as it did with her.

After speaking with our guests, many were surprised to find out that Aretha had not known us for years due to the words she spoke and how she interacted with us at the venue. That solidified the fact that choosing Aretha for our special day was one of the best decisions we could have made. Thank you, Aretha!
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Diana R. Sent on 06/20/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Our Journey

I would like to thank Aretha for being patient with my fiance and I. The process was confusing to us from the start but with Aretha’s help we were able to figure it out. Aretha always reminded us that if we had any questions that she was just a call away. With a lot of questions and answers we were ready for our wedding day. The day of our wedding was beautiful. Being outside made us feel like it was just the two of us and nature and also the way it was very intimate. Thank you Aretha!
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Natifia A. Sent on 07/08/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Natifia and Austin May 2024 wedding

What stood out to us throughout our time working with Aretha as our officiant was how detailed and prepared she was. As a bride or groom, one of the more stressful parts about wedding planning can be the sense that no one cares about the success of the event more than you and your partner — not even the people who are literally paid to care. But where others let us down, a handful of rockstar vendors showed up big and managed to alleviate us of that lonely feeling. Aretha was among the latter group.

She collaborated with our incredible coordinator and the venue’s super accommodating staff to create the perfect wedding day. She was a core member of our dream team, guiding nearly every detail of our ceremony. This included the way we walked down the aisle, the cues for us to embrace our parents, which foot we each stepped on stage with, where we placed our hands, how we received our rings from her after she received them from the best man, and so many other details I’ve probably forgotten by now (although I know she hasn’t!).

More than an officiant, Aretha is an astute choreographer with a keen understanding of how to stage a show. Perhaps the best example of this was her suggestion to break tradition and sit the groom’s guests on the left and the bride’s on the right, allowing our respective families to see our faces instead of the back of our heads as we recited our vows.

If you hire Aretha to officiate your wedding, you’ll hire a performer who respects the art of performance. She cares so deeply about the pageantry of the day that she’ll decline to share her speech with you and your spouse ahead of time, ensuring your surprise when you both finally hear your story spoken during the ceremony. (This was scary at first but turned out great. As guests of another wedding, we once heard a pretty cringe-worthy speech from a rouge officiant. But we didn’t worry much about that happening with Aretha after building trust through such an extensive planning process.)

We recommend Aretha’s services not just because they’re thorough, but ultimately because such thoroughness provided peace of mind on what we’ll remember as the most beautifully nerve-racking day of our lives. - Austin and Natifia
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Awards

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WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2024 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2023 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2022 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2021 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2018 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2017 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2016 Winner

Professional Network & Endorsements

3 Endorsements
Rebell Entertainment Rebell Entertainment Wedding DJs

I’ve met a lot of Wedding Officiants in my career as a DJ but by far, Aretha is definitely at the top of my list as the Officiant I will be recommending to future clients. She is very personable and knows how to engage with people. She is fantastic during the ceremony, makes the couple and their guests laugh which helps to make the mood less stressful. Aretha is also very professional and just very easy to work with. If you’re planning your wedding and looking for an excellent Wedding Officiant, I HIGHLY recommend Aretha.

Spynfo & Mr. Matrimony Entertainment Spynfo & Mr. Matrimony Entertainment Wedding DJs

When you've been in the wedding market for over 15 years like I have you come across many officiants. it takes a true professional to bring insight, humor and reflection during a couples most sacred moments. Aretha's words and positive energy add a special touch to every ceremony that I've worked alongside her. She sets a great tone for the day and that is crucial for any wedding! She is by far the best at what she does! I love her and you will too!

Gourmet Celebrations Gourmet Celebrations Wedding Caterers

Aretha is a fantastic Wedding Officiant! Her ability to beautifully deliver your ceremony on your wedding day and the care that she takes with every couple leading up to the wedding, is the hallmark of a true professional. If you’re able to book Aretha (she’s booked up months in advance!) do it! You’ll be happy you did.

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