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Blending "personal with historical" as one of her clients recently wrote, Cantor Re’ut (pronounced Ray-oot) feels privileged to have accompanied couples on their journey into marriage for over 25 years. Creating a synergy of ancient wisdoms with "keeping it real" to who you are as a family, Re’ut will work closely with you to build a warm, unique, "boutique" ceremony that is true to the two of you and shares your love story with your guests.

The journey begins with sending you A Couple's Questionnaire, followed up with meetings, four-to-six times before the wedding to develop a personal relationship with you, so that she can best weave your love story into the ceremony. She also takes time to review and understand with you every aspect of the ceremony, so that she can incorporate your vision and style and tailor-make the ceremony so it's relevant to and about you, while still being anchored in tradition.

Experience

Cantor Ben-Ze'ev has served the Jewish community for over 25 years, officiating many weddings and all lifecycle events building warm relationships with couples as they become a family. She is also a professional classical singer, performing in venues such as Lincoln Center and on the soundtrack of Natalie Portman's directorial debut film: A Tale of Love and Darkness. She served as cantor at Congregation Adath Israel, CT, Congregation Beit Simchat Torah in Manhattan, and Temple Shalom, Naples Florida among others.

Services offered

Cantor Ben-Ze'ev has had the privilege of performing Jewish, same-sex, and interfaith ceremonies while creating inclusive experiences for the couple and their families. When officiating an interfaith and/or intercultural ceremony, she is most mindful that cultures and faiths are authentically represented. Services include pre-marital support and preparation (four sessions) guidance on Jewish rituals and traditions, rehearsal dinner, and the wedding ceremony. Being also a professional singer, specializing in Jewish music, cantor Ben-Ze'ev can use her voice to create a spiritual, heartfelt atmosphere during the ceremony.

If you decide to Turn the text in your Ketubah to be your Love Manifesto, Re'ut will guide you, and can translate your personally written and/or edited Ketubah text into Hebrew.

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Frequently asked questions

What is the typical price for your wedding services?

$1,800

Which of the following are included in the price?

Ceremony Rehearsal
Premarital Counseling

Does starting price include the ceremony rehearsal?

Yes

What is the starting price for pre-marital counseling (per session)?

$125

What types of weddings and events do you provide services for?

Interfaith
Ceremony Rehearsal
Vow Renewal
Civil Union

What services do you provide?

Premarital Counseling
Bilingual

What religious affiliations do you serve?

Jewish
No Denomination

On average, how long are wedding ceremonies you officiate?

Less than 30 mins.

In which states are you licensed?

NY

What languages do you speak?

English
Hebrew
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Reviews of Cantor Reut Ben-Zeev

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Cantor Re'ut is highly recommended by multiple reviewers for officiating weddings. She is praised for her warm and thoughtful approach, as well as her ability to customize ceremonies to fit the couple's specific needs and desires. Reviewers appreciate her expertise in Jewish wedding traditions and her ability to create a personalized and meaningful ceremony. Many guests commented on the beauty and uniqueness of the ceremonies she performed. Overall, Cantor Re'ut is described as talented, professional, and a pleasure to work with.

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Cantor Re'ut is highly recommended by multiple reviewers for officiating weddings. She is praised for her warm and thoughtful approach, as well as her ability to customize ceremonies to fit the couple's specific needs and desires. Reviewers appreciate her expertise in Jewish wedding traditions and her ability to create a personalized and meaningful ceremony. Many guests commented on the beauty and uniqueness of the ceremonies she performed. Overall, Cantor Re'ut is described as talented, professional, and a pleasure to work with.

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Lexi B. Sent on 10/04/2021
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Working With Cantor Re’ut Ben-Zeev

When my husband and I began the journey of searching for our cantor, we were looking for someone who would take a very specific vision we had, and bring it to life. When we found Cantor Re’ut, she executed our vision, nothing short of perfection. We had a complicated vision where we wanted to have our Ketubah service on Friday evening and our ceremony service on Saturday, all at a destination wedding. Without hesitation, Re’ut stepped in and excitedly joined our journey and made our dream wedding come true. Further, she never pushed Judaism on us, but rather helped us understand the beauty of incorporating different Jewish traditions and prayers into our lives or ceremony. As two people that had lost their connection with Judaism with age, she inspired us to reconnect with our religion and heritage. Her patience and empathy as a teacher were genuine, and she found ways to highlight how Judaism already fit into our lives and ceremony, rather than making us fit it in. Her exquisite singing voice, attention to detail, beautiful articulation of our love story, several pre-marital meetings where she learned about us as partners and designed our ceremonies with us, devotion to include all of the important elements we requested, and her preparedness only scratched the surface.

We met Re’ut in a virtual setting and had all of our prior meetings virtually as well. When we were able to finally meet in person, it was as if we were seeing a family member for the first time in a long time. This is how close we grew to Cantor Re’ut. She has a beautiful way of making your story special, sacred, and unique. Simply put, Re’ut is thoughtful, flexible, and deeply caring in her approach when working with a couple. I’ve never worked with someone who is so lovingly committed to their work and where their passion is so evidently palpable. Not only did Re’ut deliver a dream wedding weekend for us where she embraced us as a couple, she also celebrated with our families and filled our wedding weekend with positivity, calm, joy, and love. I could not recommend Re’ut enough. She is a gem and every couple would be honored to work with her. We have deep gratitude for the work, effort, and commitment she poured into our love story.
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Allie Sent on 02/25/2024
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Amazing experience - highly recommend!

Re'ut officiated our wedding ceremony in September 2023 and made it the most special, perfect day. Our experience with Re’ut was everything we could have dreamed of. Re'ut made the entire process seamless and really took the time to get to know us. Her warm, sweet, and genuine personality made it so easy for us to get along and work together to create the perfect ceremony. We spent countless hours on zoom going through every detail until we felt comfortable. We really enjoyed completing the questionnaires and felt that Re'ut made the ceremony personal and exactly how we pictured. She went above and beyond and we cannot say enough amazing things about her! Anyone who works with Re'ut will be lucky, we cannot recommend Re'ut more!!
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Ken L. Sent on 08/29/2023
5 out of 5 rating

Re'Ut is the BEST

We had the pleasure of working with Re'Ut for our non-denominational wedding in August 2023. She was genuine and compassionate, worked with our schedules, accommodating to our specific needs, and always reminded us that we need to breath and experience every moment of the journey.

She really got to know the both of us throughout the time together and had beautiful words prepared for the ceremony. I would highly recommend her to anyone who needs an officiant.
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