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On WeddingWire since 2012

Over 875 ceremonies since 2007

Your wedding ceremony can be as unique as your love story! I specialize in creating a personalized ceremony that reflects the love and life you've built, the real foundation of your marriage.

I've believe that your wedding ceremony should genuinely mirror the love and life you've made together. Through an open conversation, we'll delve into your love story; tell me what you think and feel about one another. I listen and take extensive notes of your impressions, how you met, what you've grown to love, appreciate, and respect about one another, how your individual traits and qualities complement each other, and how you enhance each other’s lives. I'll offer suggestions to create a polished ceremony that not only pays tribute to your love but also strengthens your connection, leaving a lasting impression on you and your loved ones.

I'm a skilled interviewer and writer focused exclusively on crafting very personalized wedding ceremonies. I'm also an extensively experienced public speaker who knows every aspect of what a complete wedding ceremony requires of an officiant. And with inspiration from a rich history of past weddings I've conducted, I can offer you a wealth of unique options and fresh spins on any wedding tradition.

Check out my reviews and contact me today, I’d love to hear your plans!

Vows

I arrange a variety of personalized choices and versions of how you can say "I do" to one another.

Personal Vows

If you are considering writing your own vows, I'll provide you with detailed guidance to help you express your deepest sentiments.

Special Ceremonies

I can incorporate or reframe traditions so that they are even more meaningful to you or present new ideas you've never seen before.

Readings

I'll provide you with a unique selection of marriage and love related readings and will suggest creative ways to blend them into your ceremony.

The Marriage License

I give you precise, easy instructions on how to obtain your license anywhere in California. I carefully supervise the witness requirements and process your license with the appropriate County Clerk/Recorder office.

Rehearsal coordination

If you need a rehearsal, I'm very skilled at organizing and directing everyone so that your ceremony unfolds smoothly and I work with all planners.

Vendor partners

I've worked with countless other wedding services professionals and am happy to give you any referrals.

Contact me right now, as my calendar books up early.

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Frequently asked questions

What is the typical price for your wedding services?

$595

What is the starting price for your wedding services?

$395

Does starting price include the ceremony rehearsal?

No

What is the starting price for ceremony rehearsals?

$95

What is the starting price for pre-marital counseling (per session)?

$95

What types of weddings and events do you provide services for?

Non-religious
Interfaith
Ceremony Rehearsal
Vow Renewal
Civil Union

What services do you provide?

Premarital Counseling

What religious affiliations do you serve?

Agnostic
Buddhist
Earth-Based
Hindu
Jainism
Jewish
No Denomination
Pagan
Unitarian

On average, how long are wedding ceremonies you officiate?

Less than 30 mins.
30-60 mins.

In which states are you licensed?

AZ
CA
OR
WA

What languages do you speak?

English
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Reviews of Marriage With Meaning

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Paul consistently receives glowing reviews for his officiating services, with couples expressing gratitude for his ability to create personalized, touching ceremonies. From last-minute arrangements to in-depth consultations, Paul is commended for his warm, genuine approach, skillfully incorporating couples\' unique love stories into ceremonies. Reviewers highlight his professionalism, attention to detail, flexibility, and seamless execution on the wedding day, making him a highly recommended choice for couples seeking a meaningful and special ceremony.

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Paul consistently receives glowing reviews for his officiating services, with couples expressing gratitude for his ability to create personalized, touching ceremonies. From last-minute arrangements to in-depth consultations, Paul is commended for his warm, genuine approach, skillfully incorporating couples\' unique love stories into ceremonies. Reviewers highlight his professionalism, attention to detail, flexibility, and seamless execution on the wedding day, making him a highly recommended choice for couples seeking a meaningful and special ceremony.

Justise
Justise O. Sent on 05/19/2023
5 out of 5 rating

Professional and genuine

Paul is nothing short of amazing. He is kind and genuine. We found Paul on The Knot and Wedding Wire and he was highly recommended by our wedding planner Jade Preciado.

We had two phone consultations with him prior to our wedding ceremony. During the first one we got to talk about his service and his process and decide if we were a good fit. During the second call my fiancé and I both spoke with him. We shared our love story and some things that make us unique as a couple.

Just by using these two short interactions, Paul, created the perfect wedding ceremony. It was personalized for us and I got to pick from about three different sets of vows. He took all our requests into consideration and he was easy to work with.
Kathryn
Kathryn J. Sent on 07/14/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Paul To The Rescue!

We are forever grateful that Paul agreed to take our wedding on last-minute! With just a few week's notice, he was able to put together a beautiful ceremony. We do not recommend putting your officiant search off until the last minute, but if you must, Paul is your guy!
Andrea
Andrea Sent on 06/19/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Truly a Marriage with Meaning

We could not have asked for a better experience working with Paul Howell as our Officiant/Reverend. Paul is first friendly, kind and thoughtful. He took the time to get to know us better and put together a wedding ceremony that was perfect in every way. From our love letters to each other, our vows and his experience in getting to know us. So grateful for Mr. Howell, it truly was our marriage with meaning!
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8 Endorsements
Amanda Holder Events Amanda Holder Events Wedding Planners

I finally had the pleasure of working with Paul on a recent wedding and was so impressed. We have very similar philosophies about how a wedding day should go. Smooth, easy, not rushed. He took a page right out of my book, reminding the couple to breathe and take it all in. His calm, cool demeanor was appreciated. Paul just has an amazing energy about him. I would definitely recommend him to future clients, and hope to work with him again very soon! Update 9/10/18: I had the pleasure of working with Paul again this past weekend and it was absolutely flawless. He has such an ease about him, which is not only appreciated by me and my staff, but the couple and their guests, as well. I had several guests approach me and tell me what a great job he did. He just simply knocks it out of the park every time. :)

Spreafico Farms Spreafico Farms Barn & Farm Weddings

I have had the pleasure of working with Paul many different times and it is always a great experience. He is one of the nicest people that I have met and is extremely professional. He is always at the rehearsal the day before the wedding to make sure that everything goes flawless for the big day. You can tell that he is extremely passionate about what he does and you can assure that your ceremony will go smoothly and be full of passion and love with Paul leading the way. I would highly recommend him for anyone that is searching for an officiant, you will not be disappointed!

Captivating Videography Captivating Videography Wedding Videographers

Paul was GREAT to work with! He was friendly, professional and has a great sense of humor. We loved working with him and highly recommend him.

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