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Reverend Stephen Stahley is a wedding officiant based in Ranson, West Virginia. As an ordained Catholic priest, this officiant works with clients to structure a service that reflects their aspirations and goals. Rev. Stahley prides himself on respecting and honoring all couples and faiths. He works with couples throughout the Washington D.C area, performing weddings at both indoor and outdoor venues.

Experience

Rev. Stahley was ordained a Catholic priest in 1978 as a member of the Missionary Servants of the Most Holy Trinity. He served parishes in West Virginia, Kentucky, and Ohio. In 1988, Rev. Stahley resigned from the active priesthood and married his wife, Lisa. After a long career with the Montgomery County Government, he retired from public service and now devotes himself to a wide range of ministerial duties. Since 2003, Rev. Stahley has officiated at over 400 weddings throughout the nation.

Services Offered

While Reverend Stahley specializes in Catholic-themed nuptials, he has officiated at a wide range of religious, non-religious, and interfaith wedding ceremonies. Additionally, he has performed civil unions and vow renewals. While many couples prefer to go with established vow and ring formats, Rev. Stahley is happy to work with newlyweds-to-be who want to write their own pledges. He is also happy for them to add their own special elements to the wedding ceremony. If you are affiliated with a specific religion, Reverend Stahley will be glad to work with you in developing a ceremony that reflects the beauty and significance of your tradition.

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Frequently asked questions

What is the typical price for your wedding services?

$852

Which of the following are included in the price?

Ceremony Rehearsal

What is the starting price for your wedding services?

$807

Does starting price include the ceremony rehearsal?

Yes

What is the starting price for ceremony rehearsals?

$52

What is the starting price for pre-marital counseling (per session)?

$100

What types of weddings and events do you provide services for?

Non-religious
Interfaith
Ceremony Rehearsal
Vow Renewal
Civil Union

What religious affiliations do you serve?

Agnostic
Anglican
Baha'i Faith
Buddhist
Catholic
Earth-Based
Episcopalian
Hindu
Islam
Jainism
Jewish
Lutheran
Methodist
No Denomination
Presbyterian
Quaker
Taoist
Unitarian

On average, how long are wedding ceremonies you officiate?

Less than 30 mins.

In which states are you licensed?

CA
DE
DC
FL
ME
MD
NJ
NY
PA
WV

What languages do you speak?

English
Spanish
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Rev. Stephen Stahley receives glowing reviews from couples who found his services exceptional and personalized. Many appreciated his kindness, flexibility, and attention to detail throughout the planning process, from helping with vows to providing a helpful guide. His calming presence on the wedding day eased nerves, and his warm prayers and thoughtful ceremonies were highly praised. Couples felt connected to him, with guests, too, lauding his services. Stephen\'s ability to incorporate personal touches and create meaningful ceremonies left a lasting positive impression, making him a highly recommended officiant for weddings.

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Rev. Stephen Stahley receives glowing reviews from couples who found his services exceptional and personalized. Many appreciated his kindness, flexibility, and attention to detail throughout the planning process, from helping with vows to providing a helpful guide. His calming presence on the wedding day eased nerves, and his warm prayers and thoughtful ceremonies were highly praised. Couples felt connected to him, with guests, too, lauding his services. Stephen\'s ability to incorporate personal touches and create meaningful ceremonies left a lasting positive impression, making him a highly recommended officiant for weddings.

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Meaghan L. Sent on 07/18/2024
5 out of 5 rating

A Perfect Fit

Stephen was the perfect fit to officiate our wedding and we are so glad to be connected to him. We were feeling like we were at a spiritual crossroads. My husband was previously divorced and we were both raised in the Catholic faith. Stephen brought all of the spirit of the sacrament in a way that felt both inclusive and familiar.

Upon meeting, he took a genuine interest in both of us and wanted to learn about our story and our lives. He has been very supportive and frequently went out of his way to check on us as we led up to the big day. He took care of every detail in certifying our certificate and letting us know what will come next as he walked us through the ceremony. Not only did he make it to our rehearsal in D.C. in person, but he joined us at the rehearsal dinner and wedding reception, speaking with many of our loved ones and getting to know us on a new level. While the ceremony was in the traditional style of a Catholic ceremony, he was very flexible with our preferred readings. He was even such a pro that he knew just when to seamlessly step aside so that we could nail the best photo!

Because he took the time to get to know us, he was able to deliver a more personalized ceremony that didn’t feel forced or unfamiliar, even though we had only met in the months leading up to our wedding.

In the months since the wedding, we have looked back happily on our day and are in adamant agreement that Stephen was such a big part of what made it feel extra special.
Lauren
Lauren M. Sent on 10/23/2023
5 out of 5 rating

Highly Recommend!

We greatly enjoyed working with Rev. Stephen Stahley to officiate our wedding. He was very personable, easy to work with, and attentive - even emailing us each month to check in. We were provided a helpful guide to assist us in choosing our readings and planning out the ceremony but were assured that we could customize it as we wished. We initially were hesitant to write our own vows, but Stephen encouraged us to consider this, as these statements add a personal touch and are moving to the guests. We were so glad that we heeded his advice, as the vows truly added to our ceremony. We received many compliments on Stephen and the ceremony overall. The day of our wedding, Stephen was so warm and comforting, continually reminding us to relax and take deep breaths. His ceremony and prayers were thoughtful and personal. If you didn't know better, you would have thought we've known Stephen for years! Stephen was such a pleasure to work with. Highly recommend!
Jenna
Jenna S. Sent on 09/24/2023
5 out of 5 rating

10000/10 Recommendation

Stephen did an amazing job as our officiant. We had several meetings and he was very amenable to our wants. We got so many compliments from guests about him. Book him now!
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