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Say I do with Raina is a wedding officiating service serving Charlotte, North Carolina, and beyond. Raina Witherspoon, the owner of the business, is a lover of love and a proud supporter of the LGBTQ+c community. This expert believes that everyone has the right to wed the one they love in an inclusive and empowering atmosphere.

Services Offered

Couples have several packages to choose from to ensure that their needs are met and their budget accommodated. A la carte options are available for those that wish to have specific add-on services to enhance their experience. The most comprehensive collection entails a ceremony rehearsal and day-of delivery of the marriage certificate. Other benefits and service offerings include but are not limited to:

  • Framed marriage certificate keepsake
  • Custom vows
  • Unity sand or candle ceremony
  • Jumping the broom ceremony
  • Black-owned
  • Woman-owned
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Frequently asked questions

What is the typical price for your wedding services?

$675

Which of the following are included in the price?

Ceremony Rehearsal

What is the starting price for your wedding services?

$350

Does starting price include the ceremony rehearsal?

No

What is the starting price for ceremony rehearsals?

$175

What is the starting price for pre-marital counseling (per session)?

$175

What types of weddings and events do you provide services for?

Non-religious
Interfaith
Ceremony Rehearsal
Vow Renewal
Civil Union

What religious affiliations do you serve?

Baptist
Catholic
Earth-Based
Methodist
No Denomination
Orthodox Christian
Pagan
Presbyterian

On average, how long are wedding ceremonies you officiate?

Less than 30 mins.
30-60 mins.

In which states are you licensed?

AL
AK
AZ
AR
CA
CO
CT
DE
DC
FL
GA
HI
ID
IL
IN
IA
KS
KY
LA
ME
MD
MA
MI
MN
MS
MO
MT
NE
NV
NH
NJ
NM
NY
NC
ND
OH
OK
OR
PA
RI
SC
SD
TN
TX
UT
VT
WA
WV
WI
WY

What languages do you speak?

English
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Reviews of Say I do with Raina

3.9 out of 5 rating
3.9 out of 5 rating
3 Reviews
77% recommend it
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    3.7 out of 5 rating
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  • Value
    3.3 out of 5 rating
  • Flexibility
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Rwade Sent on 08/15/2021
5 out of 5 rating

Great Professionalism

Raina was easy to work with and very knowledgeable. She is flexible and interested in making your day spectacular. We were extremely satisfied with the services rendered and the value for our money. I would recommend Say I Do With Raina because she is awesome.
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Carolyn Sent on 08/15/2021
4.8 out of 5 rating

A pleasure to work with

Raina was a joy to have. We did a 60th vow renewal and Raina was great. Raina was very down to earth, respectful, and we loved having her as a part of our day. We were her first ceremony and we sure won't be the last. Thank you. You did a fantastic job.
Stephanie
Stephanie D. Sent on 04/14/2024
1.8 out of 5 rating

Accountability Goes Both Ways!

"My non-binary child and their now spouse were drawn to this vendor and the idea of having a “personalized” wedding. I hired the vendor because I was having trouble finding an officiant who is also a LGBTQIA+ Ally. Yes, I read the contract before signing and paying. Of course, there’s always a risk in signing a contract! We checked in with the vendor about two weeks before the wedding because we hadn’t heard from her since signing the contract. We were told that there would be a script shared with us. The kids already had a script and a ceremony outline. My sister communicated with the vendor and shared the script. We didn’t hear from the vendor until the day before the wedding. At which time, my now “in-law” was told that the script and the ceremony were both too long. They were told that they were being “squeezed” into the vendor's schedule therefore they needed to use the script that she shared with them. Needless to say, this created a whirlwind of emotions including total disappointment and anger in our choice of officiants. I messaged a different vendor who agreed to follow our script and was more than happy to officiate the ceremony at a moment’s notice.

So, my now “in-law”contacted the vendor and let her know that her services were no longer needed. A few days after the ceremony, I messaged the vendor to request a return of my funds. Yes, I know that was a risk due to the Non-Refundable contract that I signed. Here’s the deal…I was expected to be held accountable to the contract that I signed. And yet, the vendor did not hold herself accountable for the lack of follow through on her part. She sent the script last minute. And, she created a space that would not allow for the “spouses-to-be” to enjoy their wedding day. They didn’t get the service that I paid for because the vendor was “squeezing” them into her schedule. In this case, I do believe that I have a right to a refund. I would not have hired the vendor if I had known that she was squeezing us in and that the day wouldn’t be truly personalized. According to the vendor, it costs more to have a personalized wedding. As a parent of a non-binary, amazing human being how dare a vendor try to put them in a box when the world already does that daily!"
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Raina Witherspoon
Raina Witherspoon
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Born in Georgia, raised in New Jersey, Raina is the descendent of a deceased Desert Storm veteran and is a hopeful romantic. Raina currently resides in North Carolina with her spouse and children. She created Say I Do with Raina in 2021 with the vision of spreading love whenever possible. Raina is mindful about providing exquisite customer service parallel with quality products to administer a memorable matrimonial experience for all involved. 💒🌈💞

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