Discussions by Cassandra

So my metabolism has been wonky lately. Well my wedding is 10/20 and I jumped on the scale and I’m about 6lbs heavier than my final fitting. So im on the elliptical as we speak, but I’m worried I...

First - holy crap I’m laying next to my sleeping husband. 💙💙💙💙 Tip 1) if it rains, it is okay!!! The weather was going back and forth about rain, so we took a chance. During the ceremony, it rained....

We were not having any kids at our wedding besides those kids of the people in the wedding party. (My daughter is 10 and she is at the wedding) dont get me wrong, I love babies, but my fiancé just got...

Okay so the weather is only going to be 55 degrees, so I’ll probably need a wrap or shawl. The issue is, I don’t want to 1) spend a lot of money for a one time sure (no more than $30) 2) the...

So we found out the reason why a groomsman went MIA over the last week is because the groomsman is mad at my fiancé. My fiancé is ready to kick him out of the wedding because he doesn’t want to deal...

Oh gosh, I completely forgot I was having a photo booth at my wedding. I know you typically tip the DJ about 15-20% of the cost, but the total cost of my DJ comes with a photo booth and someone to...

Will 10 days left, I have been pretty calm with this whole wedding planning thing. Even with issues with the bridal party. (More people more problems hahaha) but now im low key freaking out. I have...

Okay so my fiancé is upset and I’m not sure how to approach the subject. He has a groomsman that has been MIA. We thought at first that his phone wasn’t working. (Which is true) but he is on fb, been...

Sooo I live in upstate NY and my wedding isn’t until 10/20. Knowing the weather can change probably 500 times by then. Right now, there are AM showers, with a cloudy sky, high of 56 degrees. Is that...

I am from and getting married in upstate ny. Which means on my wedding day it can be a high of 90 degrees or snowing. 😂 Either way, I ALWAYS get bronchitis this time of year due to the weather...

Sorry for the many post today, finalizing my wedding details 😂 First - let me say I understand that NO ONE will care about my wedding as much as I do. I respect that 😁 i have had a bridesmaid that has...

I know this has been asked, but I feel like I got everything done, but I’m questioning myself. What I’ve seen on here is what I think I’ve accomplished. all vendors are paid off head count in tips...

My music selection is due this Saturday. (Wedding is 10/20) so I was messaging my DJ about the ceremony music and dinner music. I asked him to have the bridal march being played then be “interrupted”...

So I had a little girl who was upset that wasn’t a flower girl to my wedding. I have two flower girls, one is my daughter and another is my MOH daughter. i was going to do programs, and have her hand...

I am getting married, and having my daughter there (who is 10) is extremely important. Her biological father, lives 6 hours away, and sees her 4-5 times a year. Anyways, he is getting married too. He...

My MOH’s husband is a photographer and he is doing our wedding for free. I wanted to tip him, but I’m not sure how much. I was thinking around $400 he is also is hiring a second photographer...

So my fiancé’s groomsman are lazy and didn’t plan a bachelor party for him. So I made plans at our house for his friends, drinks, lawn games, beer pong and bonfire. (Food of course) Nothing special...

My photographer is a good friend of mine and he told me to talk to my officant about something that will make a good photo fantastic. when you go for your first kiss, make sure your officant steps off...