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Got the last one in the mail today. DONE! I wrote a few a day every day until I finished my half of the list. Then waited and waited for my spouse to do her half. I nagged, she got annoyed. I finally...

Http://politicalticker.blogs.cnn.com/2013/10/21/christie-drops-challenge-to-same-sex-marriages/?hpt=hp_t1 Governor Christie has dropped his appeal. Marriage equality is and will remain the law in New...

Is it a real wedding? It's fine to ask if the marriage took place in a legal same sex marriage (SSM) locale, but "real" is an awful word to say to a newlywed/engaged person. "Real" implies it's our...

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It seems like about 15% of our guests didn't bring a gift or even a card. Honestly, I don't care; I didn't get married to rake in the prezzies. It seems tacky to me--I wouldn't dream of going to a...