Discussions by Mrs. Nihi

There are a handful of little girls in our families and want to include them. Has anyone ever had a few flower girls? How did it turn out?

FH has a lot of female friends before me, although he hasn't really been in contact with them because of well, life I guess. I am cool with these friends because I trust him. But lately they have been...

Hi Everyone, I needed some help with ideas to honor FH late sister at the wedding and reception. I have two younger brothers and I was thinking they could do a butterfly release during the ceremony....

FILs do not include telling me any plans. I am a little concerned as to why. They tell FH verbally months in advance and get upset if he forgets. I told them I would like to know ahead of time (where,...

There has been some issues with communicating with DH side of family specifically with birthdays and holidays ( timing, location, etc.) DH is aware of what time and places some of the time but expect...

In laws keep bringing up unborn children and were not even married yet. Telling us they cant wait to do things with future grand children taking them places, doing things with them, and taking them to...

Hi! I am kind of stuck on wedding plans and cannot figure out a destination. We would love a short reception but have a lot of out of town guests. Contemplating a destination wedding with a short...

Has anyone had or is planning on a shorter reception due to cost and just because that is how you both wanted to your reception? Having trouble with future in laws and how we should be having a long...

My fmil wanted to throw an engagement party. I respectfully declined because of my split parents and family members who do not get along. FMIL was not happy at all. FFIL completely understood. He told...

Does anyone have any tips on how to deal with a very controlling, manipulative, and intrusive FMIL? We have had problems since we started dating 4 years ago and are getting married next year. FH has...

It's hard living with the FIL's. Our house is being prepared but the struggle continues. Imitation is the greatest form of flattery but it's pretty constant and it seems like I do not have a one on...

We all went on a family trip this weekend.. including FIL's. My family had purchased a suite for everyone to hang out in. FIL's kept questioning me as to why they got a suite, and I answered just...

I'm getting married next year to a great guy. He had one sister and she passed when she was 19 about 13 years ago. We are living with his folks until our house is fixed. I am experiencing some...

FH parents asked me once we are moved into our new home, can they live with us. We both said no, and now are acting extremely offended. Please advise.

When we first got engaged 3 days after FMIL asks me if I am paying for wedding. I didn't know how to answer that question. And now 2 months later keeps questioning if my family wants to pitch in or...