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I am a mother of a little girl who is the light to my darkest days. I am engaged to a man that I met when we were in middle school. He has always been... View More

I am a mother of a little girl who is the light to my darkest days. I am engaged to a man that I met when we were in middle school. He has always been here for me. He seen me at my worst and always picked me up when I fell and he never turned his back on me. After years and years he finally talked me into "jumping of the cliff" and date him. Best decision I have ever made. Now I'm planning my wedding to my best friend. I am so happy I found a man who sees my daughter as his own as well as his family and takes in my flaws as perfection. We are an odd couple we are opposites in personality as well as up bringing. But we know exactly what the other is going to say before it even comes out of our mouths. We are total nerds lol well me mostly lol Harry Potter, GOT, Dinosaurs and Power Rangers.... yeah thats all me lol Hes more Videogames and Xbox One lol with a mix of other stuff. He doesn't really care much about the wedding per say. He just said not all country music and ceremony must be outside and gave me a budget, So I've been on FULL WEDDING MODE. LOL

Happily married 🎉

October 1, 2020

1478days 18hrs

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Pizza ok for reception?
Raysha in Wedding Reception, on May 5, 2018 at 4:06 PM

My fiance and I are having a wedding with 100 guests. It's a semi formal event. We have been looking for catering and he's pretty picky on food. He doesn't like BBQ and I don't want burgers and hot...

HRhodes, Feb 22, 2021 24 4,542
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Decided to Elope at Court House...
Raysha in Etiquette and Advice, on January 29, 2019 at 5:10 PM

My fiance and I have been planning our wedding since January 2018, as we get closer to time to book everything we are starting to really realize how quickly everything is adding up. So we decided into...

Maggie, Jan 30, 2019 3 133
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Future In-law Issues Pre Wedding
Raysha in Family and Relationships, on December 18, 2018 at 4:51 PM

I'm not the type of person to put my private life out in the open, but I am having some issues with my future Mother in Law! My fiance's mom is usually a very nice woman first off. But she is someone...

Raysha, Dec 19, 2018 9 350
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diy Harry Potter Inspired
Raysha in Do It Yourself, on July 30, 2018 at 4:24 PM

My fiance and I have decided on a Harry Potter Inspired Wedding. Not going as far as cloaks and wands... Our colors are the house colors. Any ideas on some simple but unique DIY decor? We do not want...

Raysha, Oct 24, 2018 21 1,757 1
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Maid/ Matron of Honor.... is it really important
Raysha in Wedding Ceremony, on September 5, 2018 at 5:10 PM

Ok... So I have 4 bridesmaids.... My sister and My 3 best friends.... I cant not choose a matron of honor. As bad as it sounds my sister really isn't a candidate, I wasn't in her bridal party or asked...

Camille, Sep 5, 2018 5 102
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bride Box?
Raysha in Hair and Makeup, on June 15, 2018 at 11:09 AM

Has anyone tried "The Bride Box" or "Miss to Mrs." monthly box? I keep seeing ads on my facebook. They aren't expensive and they send you stuff every month. But I don't want to do both, anyone have...

Mrs. Araj, Jun 16, 2018 6 161
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Veil or no veil? Father walk me down the aisle or no?
Raysha in Wedding Attire, on May 22, 2018 at 3:25 PM

This is my second wedding... My first was when I was super young (right after my high school graduation and 18th birthday) and it crashed in burned. Now 10 years later I am planning the wedding of my...

OrangeCrush, May 24, 2018 9 111
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Flower Alternatives?
Raysha in Style and Décor, on May 22, 2018 at 4:27 PM

I've been looking into flower costs for our wedding and holy moly! The cheapest I am finding in my area is $1,600! And all I need is 5 bouquets 2 boutineers? and 40 single roses with baby's...

GoodMOB, May 23, 2018 11 195
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Daughter wants my fiance to adopt her.
Raysha in Family and Relationships, on April 17, 2018 at 7:01 AM

My fiance and I have been together 2 years next month. We've known each other since 5th grade. He has been in my daughter's life since we started dating. She is shy but she warmed up to him VERY...

Jo, Apr 18, 2018 2 95
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How to involve my daughter in our wedding....
Raysha in Family and Relationships, on March 26, 2018 at 4:16 PM

My daughter is currently 5 she will be 7 1/2 when we get married. We want to incorporate her somehow. Everyone is saying flower girl but I'm afraid she will be too tall. Shes already as tall as my...

Rebecka, Mar 28, 2018 21 139
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