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Becky M. Sent on 04/22/2024Magic at Coquina Beach with Rev Jay
I’m honestly struggling to find the right words to describe just how amazing and perfect Rev Jay was for our wedding. After we met at the coffee shop 2 days before the wedding, I stayed calm because I knew in my heart we were in good hands. After a few short conversations, it felt like we had known each other for years. I genuinely was excited to see him before the ceremony, like he felt like he was an old friend of ours. Dewie and I have said several times since our wedding day that we can’t imagine another officiant for us - it had to be Rev Jay! So many of our family members have made similar comments. He is so comfortable commanding a crowd and inserts funny and sentimental moments throughout the ceremony to personalize it. He is so passionate and was absolutely the perfect fit to kick off our marriage and this beautiful next chapter for us! We are truly grateful to have found Rev Jay and can’t recommend him enough!Rev. Jay Bowman's reply:
That's gotta be one of my all-time favorite reviews, Becky. For real, you nailed it. Means so much to me that you took the time to write and post it. It's everything I want future brides and grooms to know. You and Dewie are certainly in the Coquina Beach Wedding Hall of Fame. I've seen a lot of over-the-top-happy brides over the years, but you are among the happiest of all. I can't thank you both enough for trusting me with such a giant life moment. I sure hope our paths cross again someday. Keep being you: Amazing. Your friend, Jay. -
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Jill M. Sent on 06/25/2024He was the one!
Rev Jay made our day magical. I found him at last moment and done super job helping us feel relaxed, included our guest , everyone said it was the best ceremony they have ever attended! True story , he is the best! Highly recommend!Rev. Jay Bowman's reply:
Reading your review just made my day, Jill. So awesome to be with you two in that intimate setting by the lake. Honored to have been the one you trusted with that big life moment. Big hugs to you both. Your friend, Jay -
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Rich N. Sent on 07/07/2023Super awesome
If we could add stars to the review we would. We had the best experience with Rev Jay. Jay made the day very special for us. He included our 3 children, made them feel very important and part of the ceremony. We can’t thank you enough Rev Jay. To sum this up YOU ROCK🤙🤙🤙Rev. Jay Bowman's reply:
Ha! I feel the same way about you two and the boys, Rich. So cool how it all came together that 4th of July morning. And for you to include the boys in the ceremony like you did will always leave a wonderful mark on their hearts. Good for you. Thank you so much for the kind words. All my best, Jay. -
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Kelly A. Sent on 06/01/2024Rev. Jay is “The One” …
I knew I wanted to be married by the ocean at Corolla Beach NC, but being from PA I didn’t know where to start. I truly feel God guided me to Rev. Jay!!! He was extremely helpful and so genuine. He helped me connect with I Do OBX and they made every bit of my wedding unique and stress free.
Rev. Jay is the real deal, and you can feel his passion and that he truly enjoys what he does. He takes the time to get to know you and your partner prior to your big day. He sent us questions that allowed my husband and I to take time and think about what we loved about each other and why getting married mattered to us. You could tell by how he spoke at the ceremony that he truly absorbed who we were and he became a part of our story. The ceremony was not cookie cutter but tailored to us!
My husband was very nervous and Rev. Jay’s personality made him feel relaxed. We laughed, cried, smiled and laughed some more. Both my husband and I were missing family who passed and Rev. Jay honored them in the ceremony which filled our hearts with love.
Most of all I felt our union was blessed by God as we stood under the sunset he painted and the music of his waves.
Thank you Rev. Jay for taking such good care of me and my entire family. There are no words to truly thank you.
Mike and Kelly Ann Kilroy
July 30, 2023
Corolla Beach, NCRev. Jay Bowman's reply:
What a great review, Kelly. And I love those pics you posted. What a fun day!!! We teamed together and did it right. Makes my heart very happy that you are that thrilled with how it all unveiled. All my best, Jay. -
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Joani W. Sent on 11/01/2023Magical Beyond Belief
What to say??? I am at a loss to put into the perfect words to describe our experience on our magical day with Rev. Jay and I am never at a loss for words. I'll do my best. Jay brought an authentic care from the get go. Through all the emails, the phone calls, the ceremony, Jay was attentive and guided us into the perfect evening with just the right elements that were personable mixed with a little humor to bring us the most unforgettable, perfect wedding I never knew I wanted. You, sir, are hands down an incredible officiant/person that we'll never forget. It was an honor and privilege to have you create an unforgettable experience, especially with that gorgeous sunset, full moon, and dolphins. We are grateful!Rev. Jay Bowman's reply:
Every review I receive is special to me, but Joani, you took it to a whole other level. When couples like you can sense that this is far more than just a job to me...well...it makes my heart full. You and Brian were so welcoming to me as I entered that intimate family moment next to the ocean. Thank you. I hope our paths cross again someday. In the meantime, take great care of each other (I know you will!!!). Your friend, Jay. -
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Emily Sent on 11/24/2023Truly Wonderful Experience! 10/10
From start to finish our time working with Jay was truly such a smooth and professional experience! During our meetings we got to know him and understand the passion he has for what he does which confirmed we made the right choice. We have received so many compliments from our guests on Jay's ceremony service and both families could not have been happier. Thank you, Jay!Rev. Jay Bowman's reply:
Truly, Emily, you are one of my favorite brides of the year! For many reasons. I remember standing there with your mom before the ceremony and saying, "I love how Emily is so comfortable in her own skin." She responded with, "Oh yes, her whole life." And you were the same way on your wedding day. Thank you for being you, and please know I was so honored to be a part of your big day at Vista Creek. Enjoy the journey ahead. Your friend, Jay. -
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Karen H. Sent on 09/14/2023Perfect in every way!
What can i say.....
The MAN, The MYTH, The LEDGEND, The OFFICIANT, The ONE and ONLY Reverend JAYYYY BOWMAAANNNN !!! Thank you for creating a beautiful ceremony that we will always remember. We appreciate the time and effort you invested in coordinating the perfect flow of everything, we loved your enthusiasm, it helped create a joyous atmosphere that made it easy for us to relax and enjoy every moment. We read the reviews, but you exceeded our expectations, we definitely made the right choice choosing you. I couldn't image our wedding being any better. Everything was perfect ! THANK YOU !!!Rev. Jay Bowman's reply:
Ha! You're too funny, Karen. I loved your review, especially the part where you said, "We read the reviews, but you exceeded our expectations." Yay! So happy you feel that way, and even happier that you and Jeff are so pleased with how it all played out. We were a good team! :) I truly hope our paths cross again some day. Take great care of each other (I know you will). Cupcake hugs, Jay. -
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Lisa B. Sent on 09/20/2023
One of a kind Officiant!
We are so happy we chose Rev Jay to perform our ceremony! He was both professional and lots of fun! He guided us through the process from beginning to end with ease!! Our families loved him too. He was the perfect choice for our perfect day! We would highly recommend him❤😊
Rev. Jay Bowman's reply:
I really appreciate you taking the time to write the sweet review, Lisa. You and Dave were soooo in the moment and I loved seeing that. Take great care of each other! I know you will. Jay -
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Erick O. Sent on 09/13/2023Memorable experience 💖
My Entire adult life I've had my very own Vision of how I'd love my wedding ceremony to be and Rev JAY BOWMAN was the icing on the Cake at our Wedding. God Bless him for what he does. You can honestly tell he Loves what he does because it shows in his Craft. He's there for you! We are so Appreciative and grateful for him. He will always share our day with us. Thank you A Thousand times for making my beautiful wife so happy with your special creativity. We Highly Recommend His services, and you can take that the Outer Bank, OBX Ya'll been so so Lucky to have him, and Ashville,Charlotte start Booking now for your wedding he is sooo worth it!!!!
~ Your Friends The Ortiz'sRev. Jay Bowman's reply:
I'm sitting here at my desk smiling ear to ear. Erick, your review is one of my Top Ten Reviews of all time. So cool how you wrote that, and for anyone that knows you, it comes from a guy who sees and feels things deeply. I love you, man! You and Melody (and Otis!) are so lucky and blessed to have found each other. You two were some of the 'icing on the cake' for 2023! Thank you so very much for everything. Please give Melody and Otis a big hug for me. I hope our paths cross again some day. Your friend, Jay. -
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Mackenzie Sent on 09/15/2023Everything we could have asked for, and more!
If I had a few words that I could use to describe Jay it would be, confident, compassionate, trustworthy, and energetic. We chose to get married at the Outer Banks because it’s our favorite place in the world. And we wanted someone we could trust into making our expectations a reality. And that’s exactly what Jay did for us. He made us feel comfortable, and we felt completely confident with putting our day into his hands. And he made it magical. I still have family members who attended expressing how it was one of the best ceremonies they’ve gone to. There was never a single moment where anyone felt bored, or unamused. We shared so many laughs, and memories, and heartwarming moments I will never forget. Including an extremely high tide with some pretty angry waves! Thank you Jay for making our day so magical, every time we visit the Outer Banks, And look out at the ocean we will always think of you. Thank you for being you! ❤️Rev. Jay Bowman's reply:
Sure do appreciate all those kind words, Mackenzie. You and Cameron treated me like family and were so appreciative. I'll bet Matt's photos are going to be killer. The Outer Banks just went to another level of specialness in your lives and I'm totally honored to have been a part of that Big Day. Thank you again. Your friend, Jay -
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Noelle K. Sent on 09/29/2023Best Ceremony Officiant EVER
Rev Jay was amazing! He clearly loves what he does and it shows. He made our ceremony so personal to us and the whole experience was so easy. We were in contact several times before the day of and thought of all of the details. By the day of, I felt like he was an old friend and part of the family. You were so awesome Jay! Thank you so much for helping to make our day so special!Rev. Jay Bowman's reply:
Great review, Noelle, and so appreciated. You rolled with the day and got married with a rainbow in the background over the ocean. Pretty cool, huh?!!!! It was truly my honor. Big island hugs, Jay. -
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Becky S. Sent on 08/27/2023Fun and Memorable
Rev Jay Bowman is a 5 star guy. I can’t say enough good things about him. Our Elopement Beach Ceremony at OBX was both fun and serious. Rev.Jay made us feel very special and comfortable and he is so personable and helpful. He is prompt with his responses whether by email, text or phone call. If you want the best Marriage Ceremony, choose Rev.Jay Bowman. Thank you, Rev.Jay for the memory of a lifetime.Rev. Jay Bowman's reply:
Awww...thank you, Becky. I'm so glad that you and Brian (and little Joey, too) are so happy with that sunset memory! Wow, so beautiful. Everyone wishes for an evening like that, and you got it! Enjoy the journey as 'one'. Your friend, Jay -
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Vera G. Sent on 09/30/2022Best Officiant in the Outer Banks!
Jay made our wedding day THAT much better! His delivery of the ceremony was sincere and true to who my husband and I are as a couple. If you're on the fence about hiring him for the rehearsal, DO IT! He helped my husband and I visualize everything for the big day and helped put us at ease knowing we'd be taken care of. Jay made everything about our ceremony special and fun. You won't find a better officiant in the Outer Banks!Rev. Jay Bowman's reply:
I love those combinations you wrote about, Vera.... 'sincere and true'...and....'special and fun'. Those duos should be a part of every wedding, and I'm so pleased that you are happy with how your Big Day unveiled. And you're right, rehearsals really do bring a lot of peace of mind for everyone involved, especially the bride and groom. Ya'll take great care of each other. Thank you again, Jay. -
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Chyrse J. Sent on 08/08/2023
Absolutely perfect
Rev. Jay did a fantastic job on our wedding. He made us feel very comfortable and it felt like we had known him for years. He made sure to make the ceremony very personal and we loved his upbeat personality. Everything was absolutely perfect. We could not have chosen a better officiant for our wedding. Thank you so much Jay!Rev. Jay Bowman's reply:
It was a great afternoon on the beach in Nags Head. Thank you for inviting me to be a part of your journey and I'm so glad you are thrilled with how everything turned out. You and Mike have a wonderful opportunity in front you.... #makeitcount. Big hugs, Jay. -
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Shannon S. Sent on 07/11/2023Surprise 21st Wedding Vowel Renewal
Dear Rev. Jay,
You are indeed a man with a plan. Thank you with all of my heart for planning such a wonderful surprise for my husband on our 21st wedding anniversary. You are a great gift, and this will always be a special memory for us to cherish. We did it!!!
XOXO,
Mark & Shannon
Rev. Jay Bowman's reply:
Shannon, means so much to me that your heart is that full with how that great beach evening finally happened after you waited an extra year. Mark was so cool with it all and I loved your first dance right there on the sand. Love. Love. Love. Well done, my friend. Jay -
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Todd B. Sent on 07/09/2023Rev. Jay helped make our special day absolutely perfect!
Rev. Jay did a fantastic job making our ceremony a wonderful combination of lighthearted fun, sweet sentiment, and loving exchanges. We were especially impressed with how he weaved in what we wrote about each other so beautifully. We highly recommend Rev. Jay for your special day - he was a big part of making ours absolutely perfect!❤️
Rev. Jay Bowman's reply:
Thank you, Todd. You gave me the reigns and lots of good material to work with so that the ceremony would fit you and Lisa from start to finish....and that's the way it should be. You have a great family and such a bright future together. All my very best, Jay. -
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