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Michelle M. Sent on 09/24/2023I am so happy we worked with Tom Schelling Photography - 100% recommend
One of the best decisions I made on my wedding day (aside from marrying my husband, of course) was getting to work with Tom Schelling Photography.
I remember searching for wedding photographers online and feeling exhausted as they all seemed to blend together. When I saw Tom's websites, I immediately perked up – I loved how his photos truly captured who these couples were, whether in small intimate moments or pictures which captured their sense of humor. I was so excited when Tom said he was available to shoot our wedding!
Not only is Tom Schelling an incredible photographer, but he has a truly calming energy. In the lead-up to our wedding, we had numerous conversations where he helped with everything from advice on how to find small moments amidst the hecticness, to helping us plan a schedule for the day itself, to working alongside our other vendors to make sure we had enough time for all photos before the wedding started without ever feeling rushed. Tom was always available to answer all of my last-minute questions, and it truly was a joy to have those initial planning meetings with him.
On the day of our wedding, Tom and his incredible wife Heather arrived early, and from the beginning thought of so many photo ideas beyond what we had planned before. Tom and Heather have such a beautiful eye for detail. I LOVE our photos. They made our family and friends truly relaxed, cracked jokes, and added to the overall happiness of the day. Our pictures truly capture our wedding and our family and our friends in moments big and small throughout the day. Tom would snatch us away throughout the night to sneak off and take photos which took full advantage of the environment. One photo comes to mind: my husband and I on the rooftop of our venue in downtown New York with the pink sun setting behind us.
That shot– and a hundred more which felt off-the-cuff– were planned beforehand. I feel so fortunate because those ended up being some of my favorite of the night.
I would encourage you 100% to work with Tom Schelling Photography. We are so glad that we did!
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Brenna Sent on 09/16/2023
He was a dream!
I don’t know where to start with him. Having a wedding while also being in the events industry for work made choosing Tom as our photographer an easy yes. It was easily the best decision we made for vendors. He is someone I will confidently send our clients to for the rest of time. I first searched through every bridal group looking for a photographer that “made photos look like they were the day on pause, as if they could move in an instance” that meant clear, clean, and real to me! I didn’t want over edits even though I do love everyone’s unique stylistic choices. As far as his craft goes, he does just that! Everything felt so organic and real with him. The photos capture all the happy, And all the special that the day brought. We had been married over a year already on our wedding day, so we feared that it wouldn’t feel as special. But Tom helped us to ease that fear! Honestly, I’m in awe of him. He made everything so special. From the very first meeting, everything he did was intentional and thoughtful. He surprised us, romanticized our wedding and wedding planning experience. He fit seamlessly in the day with us, which was so important to us from the very beginning. I don’t want to ruin all the little surprises that he tucks into your experience with him, but just know that you can absolutely trust him. He will enhance that day and your experience. He is an expert and is 100% worth every dollar spent to have him there. He will feel like a friend attending, while also bringing his expertise with him. My husband and I don’t love being in front of the camera, but we never felt like we were with Tom. The pictures made us both laugh hysterically and cry hysterically. Okay now the sad part… our doggy was at our wedding, but she was sick with congestive heart failure. She had the best day, and it actually was her last really good day. Tom captured her in her prime. By the time the pictures arrived, we had lost her. She was our best pal. The pictures Tom took are our favorite. They healed our broken hearts a little bit. Just trust him. He was the BEST pick. -
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Danielle K. Sent on 12/03/2023Greatest of all time
If we had to describe Tom in one word it would be phenomenal. Tom is an exceptional photographer who has a remarkable ability to capture some of the most magical moments in our lives. He goes above and beyond the role of a wedding photographer, providing unwavering support from the beginning to the end of the process. Not only did Tom shoot our wedding, but he also captured our engagement photos and even my sister's wedding ( almost 6 years ago)!
To be honest, just thinking about the way Tom and Heather captured our wedding brings tears to our eyes. It may sound cheesy, but the experience with Tom was truly life-changing. From the moment we met him, he brought a sense of calm and comfort that made us feel at ease. He took the time to understand our vision and made sure to capture every detail that was important to us.
During the wedding day, Tom's precision and talent were out of this world. He knew exactly how to let us stay in the moment, soaking up every ounce of our love. He also knew how to position us when necessary and use lighting to create the most breathtaking images. He has an incredible eye for capturing emotions and candid moments that truly tell the story of the day. Looking through our wedding photos, we are transported back to that special day, reliving all the joy and love we felt.
Not only is Tom a talented photographer, but he is also a pleasure to work with. He is professional, approachable, and always willing to go the extra mile to make sure his clients are happy. He made us feel comfortable in front of the camera and effortlessly directed us to create beautiful shots.
We can't recommend Tom enough. He is not just a wedding photographer; he is a storyteller who has the ability to freeze time and create memories that will last a lifetime. If you want someone who will capture the essence of your special day and exceed your expectations, Tom is the photographer for you. -
Julie T. Sent on 07/09/2023
The best of the best
My husband and I are incredibly grateful to have worked with Tom for our wedding. Choosing vendors is always a challenging process but right from our initial conversation, we knew we were in great hands. Even before we hired him, Tom took the time to walk us through his process and discuss our vision to ensure we were mutually aligned. There was never any pressure and we just clicked immediately which is how you should feel when selecting the people to be around you on your big day.
While the initial zoom calls were helpful - it was only the beginning as far as building a working relationship was concerned. Our engagement shoot was so much fun and gave us the chance to really get to know one another. Just like Tom had told us, having the chance to get to know your photographer beforehand helped alleviate the inevitable nerves on the big day. On top of all that, the pictures came out incredible and we couldn’t have been more excited imagining how beautiful they would be from the main event.
Tom is a true professional and his calm demeanor put us at ease. He felt more like a friend who truly wanted to help guide us along each step of the way. He made himself available whenever we had a question or concern and constantly provided us with incredibly valuable insights drawn from a clear wealth of knowledge and experience. Tom is proactive and sent so much material to help with planning & logistics – something that every bride can and will appreciate during the hectic months before!
On the day of our wedding, Tom was absolutely amazing. He provided that overall sense of comfort, having built such a strong relationship already. All of which inevitably translated into a much more natural environment that led to amazing pictures and video. He’s a true artist in every sense of the word and beautifully captured each element of the day. As we look back on the pictures now (of which we received in a very timely manner!), we truly feel transported back to the day and that the pictures showcase and depict the feelings of these incredibly special moments. Our friends and family shared all the same levels of comfort with Tom and are still complimenting us on not only our selection for a perfect photographer but on how gorgeous the pictures turned out. We really can’t say enough good things about Tom (+ Heather and Amara who we’d be remiss not to mention how great they were as well!!) and would do it all over again in a heartbeat!
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Maggie E. Sent on 06/19/2023Trust in tom! He is incredible!
We have no shortage of amazing things to say about Tom. From the moment we saw his photos online and on Instagram, he immediately stood out to us. You can feel the emotion and passion in his photos. When we reached for more information after coming across his work, he asked to schedule time to get to know us. We did, and Tom spent an entire hour with us on Zoom (without any commitment to hire him) and invited us to ask him questions and he asked some of us too – how we met, what we loved about each other, what will be most important to us on our wedding day. Tom also stressed that he wanted to make sure that we liked each other’s vibes because we would be spending A LOT of time together on the day of our wedding. For anyone booking a photographer for their wedding, you do spend a lot of time with your photographer, so – Tom was right – it is SO crucial that you like your photographer, and they like you. I can tell you that we didn’t just like Tom… we loved him! By the end of the journey leading up to our wedding, he and Heather felt like old friends.
Now for two people who (1) have never had professional photos taken of them, (2) didn’t want to do hours and hours of ‘posing’ and (3) wanted to maximize time with each other and friends and family – I promise you that Tom and Heather make that all possible. They are a calming presence, yet also so quick and efficient. They give helpful direction, but don’t make you feel awkward. They are your biggest cheerleaders and supporters – making you feel beautiful/handsome and most importantly comfortable! After a short session of more traditional portraits (at our request) and family and friend photos, Tom and Heather worked their magic – they allowed us to enjoy every moment of our wedding day and captured the most amazing photos and video (more often than not without us noticing). Tom thought of everything! He was so prepared, despite never stepping foot at our venue, and captured the day perfectly.
From the lead-up, to the day of, and then all the way past the wedding (delivering the most amazing photos and beautiful wedding album) Tom was there for us. It was amazing getting to know Tom in the lead-up during our phone and Zoom calls as well as during our engagement session (which was really helpful) – even if you don’t think of yourselves as ‘engagement photos’ people, you NEED to do it! The photos came out great, and it was a really cool opportunity for us to get comfortable in front of a professional camera and with Tom. Engagement sessions also help develop that trust – if you’re unsure or insecure about something, you learn that Tom 1000% has your back. It allowed us to just have fun the day of our wedding and not stress about how we look or how the photos will come out. It also really helped the day of our wedding feel fun and light, and it was really cool to see Tom and Heather in their element – they got along so well with us, with our wedding party and our family – and the pictures came out SO beautiful!
If you’re looking for someone to trust with timeless memories, choose Tom. I promise you won’t regret it. He and Heather will make you feel like the best versions of yourselves – and you will look and feel amazing through it all! -
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Emma Sent on 11/13/2022
Tom Schelling Photographer - Best of the best!
Tom and Heather made my wedding day!
My biggest challenge when looking for a wedding photographer was finding someone that truly understood the photos I was looking for and someone that I trusted to capture my day. As soon as I spoke with Tom I knew he was the one and trusted him completely.
From the very beginning, Tom was so calming and supportive. He had a special touch that other photographers that I talked to did not. He sent a package with his favorite movie, prints from our engagement shoot, popcorn and so many other personalized goodies.
Throughout planning he would check in to help plan the day and offer his guidance with the schedule. On the wedding day itself, Tom and his wife Heather were the duo that even my guests are still talking about! They were so dynamic, fun, blended in so well and truly captured the most amazing photos - I am beyond happy. Tom has such a creative eye and his photos are like no other. I wanted candid yet classic pictures and he absolutely brought that vision to life.
Tom and Heather were so kind, happy and genuinely fun to work with. It was like we knew them forever. Their photos are so incredible because THEY are behind the lens.
I am forever grateful for my photos and video from my wedding day. They turned out better than I could have ever imagined. Thank you from the bottom of our hearts. -
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Katie G. Sent on 08/20/2022We would choose Tom 1,000 times over!
If we had to do our wedding 1,000 times over, we would choose Tom as our photographer every time. Not only was he a calm and reassuring presence leading up to the big day, but he and his wife, Heather, made it their priority to ensure that we maintained that sense of calm and control throughout our entire wedding day and night. What could have ended up being a chaotic situation solely based on the large size of our families and bridal party, ended up being a positive, happy, and surprisingly EASY experience due to the support and guidance that Tom and Heather provided to us. Having just had their own wedding less than one week prior to ours, there was never once a feeling that this team was unhappy to be back at work. They were gracious, friendly, and accommodating to us and our guests from beginning to end. We will forever be grateful to them for playing a part in what will go down as one of the BEST days of our lives. Thank you, Tom & Heather! -
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Benjamin Sent on 03/17/2023We are so grateful we found Tom!
We read through some of the other reviews and nothing has been exaggerated. Tom really is that good. If you are lucky enough that he is available on your wedding date, book him.
We couldn’t have asked for a better experience. It was a joy working with Tom. When we were initially looking for a photographer, it was overwhelming because essentially we were about to give some stranger a lot of money and put a ton of trust in them. Tom straight up neutralized our anxiety in that regard. Right away we were struck by his approachability and the fact that he put ZERO pressure on us. From our very first video chat, he was remarkably patient, supportive and empathetic, and he remained that way through the day of our wedding. And on that day in particular, we didn’t anticipate needing a person like that but man are we glad we had Tom to help level our heads from all the craziness. His calm and reassuring attitude was an oasis. It was such a relief to be able to have complete trust in him that day.
If you’re considering Tom to be your photographer, know that in addition to all of the above, his communication with us and his responsiveness to our questions/concerns was exceptional. We were happily surprised by the amount of times he was the one who took initiative and reached out to us. Throughout every stage of the process, his guidance and organizational skills kept us sane. There were so many small details we didn’t even consider and we’re thankful he did. He’s one of the most meticulous and thorough people we’ve ever met, but in such a natural, easygoing and comforting way.
Oh and we didn’t even talk about the jaw-droppingly beautiful and organic photos he creates. But Tom’s work speaks for itself. It’s what prompted us to reach out to him in the first place. We will forever be in awe of our wedding album. It’s too difficult to put into words how happy we are with it. -
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Juliet H. Sent on 04/09/2023
Tom is the best!
Can't say enough good things about our experience with Tom and our beautiful wedding photos! Not only do our photos capture the day but Tom is a true artist, and his photos are unique, airy, and exactly what we were looking for.
Beyond being an incredible artist and photographer, he genuinely cares about each couple he works with. My husband and I are very uncomfortable in front of the camera so finding a photographer was hard for us. From the initial phone call on, Tom put us at ease. He understood what we were looking for and did an incredible job capturing our wedding day. He was also able to seamlessly fit into our day and navigate family members, etc.
After the wedding we also worked with Tom to create a wedding album and his eye for laying this out and easy to work with nature persisted. We have so many incredible photos that we will treasure! Thank you Tom for such a great experience!! -
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Justin T. Sent on 11/28/2021Photographer, Artist, Friend
We hired Tom because he’s an artist. It shows in every frame he captures. There are a lot of choices for a wedding photographer, especially in the NYC area, but if you want someone who brings artistry and still can wrangle all your family members for a photo, Tom is your guy. Tom just puts everyone in his orbit at ease. If you’re on the fence about choosing Tom, don’t be. He checks every box.
We were a Covid wedding, and had to move our date twice throughout 2020 and 2021. Each time Tom was totally understanding and made sure he was available to us. He stayed in touch throughout all the waiting at a regular cadence and made sure we had everything planned out well in advance when it came time to get down to details. In addition to being completely on top of it, Tom adds a personal touch every step of the way. Whether it’s a thoughtful gift or a quick video to connect with details Tom brings his authentic self.
When it finally came time to have the wedding, we can’t say enough about how professional Tom was. He captured everything from details, to our first look, the ceremony, and of course those amazing reception candids that really capture the atmosphere. Tom has a deft ability to switch between formal photography to almost a journalistic quality for candids. He is charming, a fantastic photographer, and we can’t recommend him enough. Tom is the best. -
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Katie Sent on 04/26/2022Hire Tom!!!
Tom is the absolute best - he made everything seamless for us. I interviewed tons of different photographers and none of them made me feel comfortable like Tom did. He wanted to know us, how we met, know our story. He genuinely cared. For us that was so important, after all you are with them all day!
He really took the absolute best photos and the turn around time was insanely quick so we could relive the evening! Hire Tom and Heather and you will not regret it!!!!!!!!! -
Karen J. Sent on 11/22/2021
Don’t think twice!
Hiring Tom Schelling Photography was undoubtedly one of the best decisions my husband and I made while planning our wedding! There’s something to be said about an extremely organized, creative, multi-talented, interpersonal photographer! Not only were our photos absolutely timeless and stunning, but Tom helped us with organization, logistics, timelines, photo locations, positive weather affirmations, calming our anxieties, and so much more. Heather, Tom’s amazing fiancé and fellow talented counterpart, helps tremendously and the day of always made me feel special and made sure the details were on point. Tom Schelling was our photographer for our intimate Covid wedding in Central Park in 2020 and again at our big wedding in Montauk in 2021, two of the most special days in our lives.. two days and a million moments in time that were captured so beautifully and that will last forever thanks to Tom Schelling Photography. Thank you Tom and Heather for such a fun, easy, and exciting process and for your gorgeous work! -
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Lisa M. Sent on 01/18/2022
Tom is amazing!
We used Tom Schelling for our engagement and wedding photos. We would highly recommend him. He was always professional and so thoughtful throughout our journey. We loved his photos. He was so organized and pays so much attention to detail. He really makes sure to capture the moments you want. He also brought some much of his creativity to our detailed photos. He was a complete pleasure to work with. -
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Zach C. Sent on 09/09/2021
Tom is amazing!
From our initial search for vendors, we knew that photography and videography was something that we both highly valued. We wanted photos that captured us as a couple and Tom Schelling did exactly that. It was such a pleasure to work with Tom and Heather throughout our planning process, they truly felt more like our friends than our photographers. Tom even helped us with creating a timeline for our wedding day and was very flexible when we had to postpone our wedding due to Covid, just some of the things he does that we felt were going above and beyond our expectations. Not only did he make us feel comfortable through consistent communication and each interaction, but our photos are also completely natural and resemble us. Tom has such a unique eye for photography and our photos turned out better than we could have ever imagined, we couldn't wait to share them with our family! Thank you so much Tom for authentically capturing our day, a day that we can now cherish for a lifetime. -
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Lm136 Sent on 10/18/2020Excellent experience with Tom!
Amazing work by Tom! We got married on 9/19/20 in a small ceremony, which was planned approximately 1 month before. I was nervous about finding a photographer last minute, but Tom responded right away (and luckily for us, he was available). He was very responsive and flexible in setting up time to chat before the ceremony (I have a busy schedule, which he accommodated easily) in order to discuss our vision and plan for the day. On the day of the wedding, he was excellent! We've never taken "professional photos" and so he was great at directing us, but also allowing us be ourselves. Even though we had never met, it felt like a friend was taking our photos, which definitely put us at ease. The photos themselves came out amazing--a great mix of photos of the two of us, photos of the ceremony, and photos of our family members. Definitely a wonderful experience overall. I would highly recommend Tom to any of my friends and family. -
Amber R. Sent on 10/08/2021
absolutely incredible!!!
Where do we even begin. Booking with Tom was the best decision we made in the wedding planning process!! I never would have imagined our pictures could be as beautiful as they are. Tom is second to none. He exceeded all expectations and was a pleasure to work with. His work ethic and dedication to his craft is incredible. Throughout the whole process of booking to wedding, Tom has been thoughtful and kind, generous and understanding. We were a COVID wedding and Tom worked with us through all of the many options we were considering, putting as at ease that he would be a part of whatever we chose to do. Besides his astounding pictures that are absolutely breathtaking, he is super laid back and made us feel at ease. He brought a wonderful energy to our Day and all of our friends were raving about how awesome he was. If you’re in need of a photographer, and you want amazing pictures and to work with someone of character and integrity, Tom is your man! -
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James R. Sent on 11/11/2019Jess&James - Tom is Top Notch!
Tom was our wedding photographer this past summer and what a fantastic choice we made! Tom's attention to detail, professionalism, and expertise in capturing the most important day of our lives went above and beyond our expectations!
Initially, it was tough to select a photographer but when we came across some of Tom's work on Instagram/Facebook/his website, we were impressed with how he captured the most candid of moments. From the moment we first met him, he put our worries at ease by explaining the process, responding almost instantaneously whenever we had questions via email, and ensuring that he would be with us every step of the way. Out of all of our vendors, Tom was by far the most organized, responsive, and had an uncanny ability to direct others to ensure we were able to enjoy each other on our wedding day.
I'd like to say Tom's work truly speaks for itself once you see the images he captures and the way he lays out the draft album for you! If you're on the fence about booking him, please meet him in person, and I promise that you will not be disappointed! -
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Karen M. Sent on 06/30/2020Incredibly talented, professional, incredible NYC Photographer!
Tom Schelling is class, personified. Our experience with working with Tom and his fiancé Heather the day of our wedding was seamless and perfect! He is super creative, relaxed and flexible, as well as efficient and organized.. essentially he checks every single box you could ever want in your wedding photographer! My husband and I arrived separately to a predetermined location in Central Park by Tom for a genuine first look, followed by a breathtaking shoot at nearby locations in the park, and finally our ceremony at Dene Summerhouse. The entire experience leading up to our actual ceremony not only eased our own anxieties, but we had so much fun! He took the “pressure and work” off of us through his ability to gently and creatively guide us through our photos and make us laugh along the way.
Tom is visionary, and has an eye for originality, class, and romance. His photography embodies iconic NYC as well. Tom was extremely helpful in planning the timeline of our special day, in choosing the photo and ceremony locations, and in organizing the shot list for family photos. In conclusion, do not hesitate to choose Tom Schelling as your NYC Wedding Photographer or for your special event, it will be the best decision you have made! Thank you, Tom! -
