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1851 days agoWe just had our wedding on Saturday and it was magical We couldn't have asked for a more perfect day. Some people were beyond generous. I'm a little nervous though because I don't know who packed up the card box, but we had over 30 guests not give...
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1859 days agoThis is a super silly question - I'm almost embarrassed to ask! How does a bride get drinks on the wedding day? Does she wait in line like everyone else? Does someone grab her a drink?? Does she go to the front of the line? Silly, I know - just not...
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1859 days agoFFIL is so sweet. He went way out of his way and must have spent a small fortune on Hawaiian leis for the entire bridal party and parents and grandparents (this was kindof a surprise). FH and his dad's side are partly Hawaiian. He originally asked if...
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1860 days agoWe have a cap of $5,000 to spend on alcohol - it is based on consumption. We have about 140 guests coming. No, this likely won't cover the whole night. The estimate is closer to $8,000 to cover all night for beer, wine, and two...
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1863 days agoIf you're married, how did your groom react? If you're getting married, how do you think he will react vs. how do you hope he'll react? I feel like there's so much pressure on him! My FH is amazing. Kind, loving, affectionate, generous, funny,...
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1863 days agoWhat's everyone's take on wearing red to a wedding? I'm not talking like burgundy or deep cranberry or even crimson. I'm talking a scarlet, fire-engine red? To a non-Chinese or Indian wedding (a "white" wedding wear the bride wears white or ivory). I...
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1871 days agoThis mom is a great friend who had a baby a few months ago. She's always going on and on about how nobody is allowed to touch her baby, not family, not friends, no touching of socks, no standing too close, and not breathing too close. It's...a lot....
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1872 days agoOkay so we are staying at a hotel 20 minutes from the venue. We will be having a limo for bridal party, bride, groom. I also have a bridal suite at the venue that a lot of brides like to get in their dress at. Problems: I want to have pictures of my...
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1873 days agoWedding is in 18 Days, gah! We have a number of new moms who are nursing. We aren't having kids or babies at the wedding; however, we'd like to make the nursing mamas lives as easy as possible considering the circumstances. We will be offering the...
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1879 days agoI'm too involved to be objective about this at this point. I can't tell if I'm being unreasonable, if FMIL is being unreasonable, or what's happening. Anyway, FMIL seems to be confused. She has told her siblings that she is the wedding planner when...
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1884 days agoDo people actually still give away centerpieces? The outside of ours will be completely handmade by the groom, and stained by mother of the groom, and also expensive to make. Not looking to part with those - my sister is also getting married next...
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1885 days agoWe have this couple friend - they are newly married. This is his first marriage, her second. They have their first kid together due 3 weeks before our wedding (but it's her second kid, she has one from a previous marriage). Anyway, we would love for...
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1892 days agoHelp! What would you guys do? And does this make me prudish?? I'm definitely an introvert and feel uncomfortable in the spotlight as I can be a bit shy; however, on my wedding day I'd like to really try to enjoy it and think about the attention as...
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1894 days agoWhere do I begin! Haha. This is part vent, part wwyd. Wedding is in 39 days and the stress has really started (gah, help!) My parents are super super simple and extremely frugal, and also chronically late for everything and extremely disorganized....
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1901 days agoHelp! My FMIL is incredibly kind and loving, and super involved. She is also suppperrr pushy with opinions, asks extremely detailed questions about the wedding, wants to talk about it all the time (so I can't just not bring up the wedding or keep...
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1906 days agoWhat did/are you getting as gifts for bridesmaids? Parents?