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1081 days agoI've always been pretty firm on the side of absolutely not asking friends or family, including bridal party members, to work your wedding. In my circles, it's common to have a DOC, wedding at a hotel or wedding venue, etc. where DIY is minimal and...
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1142 days agoI am planning a local bachelorette for a friend and there will be multiple events throughout the day. I know the invitees all have different work schedules and stuff going on, so I’d like to give them the option to individually RSVP to the various...
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1355 days agoOne piece of advice that I see pop up on these boards often when the gift of bridesmaids gifts comes up is to “shop like it’s their birthday” and to buy individual gifts that suit specific hobbies and tastes. I find this fascinating! I’ve been a...
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1976 days agoSo I know it’s not “fair” to be disappointed but we are getting married Saturday and have had six, possibly seven last minute former yeses send their regrets this week. That feels like a lot considering what we thought was our final list was 50. I...
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1977 days agoWe are having a small wedding on May 4th with a dinner reception—no dancing. From the cocktail hour and a half to the end of dinner is four hours total. I made the mistake of sending my mom the itinerary for the day and she saw the FOG, MOH and BM...
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2007 days agoI have had such guilt over my friends spending money on my wedding! I got very nice gifts for my seven bridesmaids (spent around $120 per girl) and MoH (spent around $170) to thank them for the cost of being in the wedding and giving up...
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2024 days agoI’m in desperate need of accessories help for my May wedding! This is my dress, in ivory: https://www.justinalexander.com/justin-alexander-signature/collection/wedding-dresses/99017/ And this is my veil:...
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2082 days agoWe are having a small wedding (somewhere between 40-65 people) and are going to have a simple rehearsal the morning of the wedding. However, it is a destination wedding for most people so we'd like to have some kind of "rehearsal dinner." FH wants to...
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2085 days agoFH and I are from the northeast and planning on getting married in Florida. We’re flying down tomorrow to visit two resorts, and are pretty positive we want the first one. They have a hold on our day. Should everything go well and we want to put down...
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2093 days agoSo FH's father very generously said he'd like to pay for our wedding. (My mom has no money, my father is deceased and FH & I were fully prepared to pay for the wedding had he not offered.) The only thing is he only said "I'd like to pay" with no...