We are 11 days out, we get married next Friday and I am at the end of my rope.
FH's parents keep saying they're going to give us money for the wedding, we haven't seen it yet, FH keeps saying "if they said they're going to pay they will" well we need to drop the final check off to the venue a week from today and we haven't heard anything besides "we'll give you xx amount of money" ok great WHEN?!
Two months ago I reached out and let them know I needed a picture of FH's dad father for our memorial table. Asked again a month ago, and again a week ago, still do not have this picture. I ended up just printing a bad photo off Facebook, FH's grandfather passed before he was born so all the pictures of him are very old.
BUT, FFIL texted me today asking who I was including on our memorial table, I told him his dad, two FH's uncles, my four grandparents and our (technically his parents dog, but we loved him more than I can ever explain) dog who tragically passed a couple months ago. One of FFIL's friends passed in February, he asked if his widow was coming to the wedding and I said yes, he then says we need to add a picture of this friend to our memorial table. I'm so confused as to why I need to add this friend to our memorial table?! Especially when I can't even get a picture of his dad's dad?!? I have family/family friends I didn't include in the memorial table cause I wanted it to just be the people most important to us.
Him asking me this just made me SNAP, it's just another demand on a list from them under the guise that "they're paying so they get a say" meanwhile we haven't seen any money, and my parents are paying for 90% of this wedding and haven't asked for anything. I got petty and am now also including my great aunt and a family friend of mine on the memorial table, because WHY NOT?!
/rant