Hi everyone! Graduated bride here who is now a matron of honor for a friend. I need advice! In the month of July I threw the bride a 30th birthday party, a bridal shower (that I originally wasn’t supposed to plan but her family asked if I’d take over a few weeks before which left me putting the rest together—the bride doesn’t realize that I ended up doing most of it with little help because I didn’t want to throw her family under the bus), and a bachelorette. I went above and beyond where I could to make the bride feel special.
Her soon to be MIL (who was rude towards me at the shower I threw) is throwing another shower an hour and a half away with her church group who isn’t invited to the wedding. The bride tried to get her not to but she had her mind made up. I just recently told the bride that I’m not going to make the second shower and she is angry with me.
Am I being inconsiderate or a bad MoH by not going to this one?
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