You all are so helpful I'm back for some more advice!
Backyard wedding October 2021 for approx 130 people.
Note- we're not doing entrances, speeches, or a first dance
Now the question is-- where do my FH and I sit?? We don't love the idea of a sweetheart table. He is pretty anti-attention and anti-traditional wedding. He is insisting to not have seats for us at all, which I disagree with because I want to eat! He thinks we're going to just talk to people all through dinner. My compromise was a head table, but he didn't love that idea either. I'm really at a loss for what to do!