2 maid of honors

What do you need help with specifically? A and B are both maids of honor. End of discussion.

View Quoted Comment Like how do I tell them both that there is a second maid of honor, like I want a cute way to tell them

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I just got my maid and matron a card. Could do a proposal box those are popular. Just call them "co- moh"

Don’t make it a big deal. I have to maid of honors and just said “you’re both maid of honors” and that was it. It’s ok!

I’d tell them the same exact way you would if there were one. I’m not big into formal bridesmaid proposals but even if you are I’d focus on their role, not someone else’s. When it comes up in conversation just say X and Y are your MOH. If there’s not one or two very obvious choices, and you’re uncomfortable with how to divulge for that reason, plenty of brides have equal bridesmaids and no MOH.

Hi! I am one of two MOHs for a friend's wedding. She actually texted me to ask so I can see her exact wording “I’m planning on having 2 maids of honor. Would you be one of them?”



Sure it’s not traditionally how it’s done but I don’t really care haha I’m just excited to be a MOH for her special day!

If you mean how do you tell one propective MOH up front that you are planning on having her share the role, just say I'm asking you and X to be co-MOH. Will you do me the honor of standing up with me on my wedding day? If it's about letting the bridesmaids know, as I said, there doesn't have to be any big announcement. I'd just focus on their roles when asking if they will participate. The MOHs can be given contact info for the BMs and you can let them know in the course of normal conversation.

I think you can just tell them, unless you're anticipating some kind of drama.

I have both a Maid of Honor and Man of Honor, and they both know I've called them best friends over the years, so it was expected.

View Quoted Comment Thanks! That was helpful