2 weddings near the same time

Hi!


My fiancé and I are planning to get married around late august September 2022.Ideally it would be an elopement of 3 to 4 weeks to Europe (Him and I have never been) so it would give us time to explore as much as we can.This is the best time of the year for me to take time off I could even possibly get an extra unpaid week as it is the quiet time of the year in the business I work in.
His best friend is also planning a week long vacation around the same time in 2022. His best friend is already married but wanted to celebrate later because it was hard to do during covid. I’m the only person who has limited time off, everyone else is self employed. My fiancé keeps telling me that he doesn’t know when we can take time off for our own weeding as he needs to be at his best friends wedding (he is a groom) I understand it is important that he goes, personally I will not take a full week of my limited time for someone else wedding when I am planning on taking this precious time for my own.
I feel like the timing of just bad, I feel he is not excited about our own plans and it makes me less excited about getting married to be honest. Emotionally I’ve been from wanting to get married traditionally to doing an elopement because of covid there’s was just too many issues, now I feel there’s more issues again.
To be completely honest I feel like just not getting married at this point because there always an issue and I feel like my fiancé is not on board.
I don’t know what to do and how to approach this. I am not going to wait on someone else’s plan to make my own I have to give my weeks early at work especially if I’m planing to leave for more than 2 weeks.