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Jessica
Devoted February 2021

2 weeks after the wedding

Jessica, on March 6, 2021 at 9:38 AM Posted in Planning 1 9
Just wanted to share some advice for brides and grooms coming up so you don’t run into the same stuff I did - that was super annoying


1. My mother was late 45 minutes and held up make up and hair causing us to lose 30 minutes of pre wedding photos. In hindsight I should have scheduled her to come early
2. The coordinator for the venue not my personal planner started packing stuff up before the reception was over making me and my guests feel like we needed to leave. Like the gift table, welcome table, the FAVOR table so now I have 60% of my favors left that guests didn’t have a chance to take
3. The venue didn’t abide by my schedule which I was very Adamant they follow causing the dinner courses to lag so we skipped a couple formalities to get things back on schedule. I’m a professional planner as well so this made me super mad
4. They mixed my decor I brought to the venue with the florists and because our wedding was out of state I’ll probably never get it back and of course the florist said nothing.
5. While the reception was going on their staff went into the bridal suite and packed everything up mixing mine and everyone else’s belongings together.
All and all these are minor details but for someone like me who is a detail person it was very disheartening I hope your day is perfect!

9 Comments

Latest activity by Wendy, on March 8, 2021 at 1:09 AM
  • D
    June 2021
    Dj Tanner ·
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    This is perfect! Thank you so much for this! I will be sure to bring boxes and label everything and give them an inventory sheet to make sure they don’t screw it all up. It’s all very good to know
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  • Michelle
    Master April 2021
    Michelle ·
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    Thanks for the info!
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  • Shelby
    Beginner April 2022
    Shelby ·
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    Thank you!
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  • Alyssa
    Super October 2023
    Alyssa ·
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    But honestly I'd be livid if they started packing everything up before we were done partying.
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  • Laura
    Just Said Yes October 2021
    Laura ·
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    Omg, thank you for some tips! My wedding is in October and it’s destination wedding, I can’t be there for everything.., but I’m freaking out a little myself. I’m very clean and organized! I can’t even image if my table cloths will be wrinkled or if they start moving stuff too early... Somehow we need close our eyes and enjoy the day!Smiley smile
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  • M
    Legend June 2019
    Melle ·
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    Oh my gosh some of that stuff sounds really frustrating but I do agree with the overall sentiment that even with all that, at the end of the day it was still a good day
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  • Tory
    Devoted May 2022
    Tory ·
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    Oh my gosh that’s so awful. I cannot believe they’d be so unprofessional by packing up your items and favors before the reception is over. You guys paid for the space for a set number of hours and they shouldn’t have put the pressure on you and your guests to feel rushed to leave
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  • RaylaSan
    Expert February 2021
    RaylaSan ·
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    Gosh it sounded like there was a lack of communication going on, it sounds horrible. My wedding ended up being a lot sooner than we imagined, but it was still a lot of fun, and everyone enjoyed it.

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  • Wendy
    Beginner April 2021
    Wendy ·
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    Oh wow!!! My daughter already knows to always tell me 30 minutes before a plan and her wedding will be an hour before!! I don’t mean to be late.... I’m just OCD and it makes things worse.
    Those are some great tips!! These venues strive on reviews!! Make sure you let them know so they can make it right and hopefully get your things back!! Congrats though!!!
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