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2021 Celebration After Eloping This Year?

Haley, on January 28, 2021 at 7:41 PM Posted in Planning 0 6
Any 2020 brides who still eloped planning a second ceremony to celebrate with everyone in 2021? If so, are you planning on re-doing vows and make it feel like a true wedding? We still eloped this year, but felt like we got jipped with all the fun stuff (walking down the aisle, wearing my real dress, etc). Is it weird to do another ceremony?

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Latest activity by Jessica, on January 29, 2021 at 6:36 PM
  • Mrs. Spring
    Master April 2021
    Mrs. Spring ·
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    It's not weird at all. Just be honest with guests about being already legally married.
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  • Courtney
    Dedicated October 2021
    Courtney ·
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    Me! I had to postpone 3 times (original date was 5/30/2020) and we ended up eloping with just our parents and siblings on 10/23/2020. We postponed our big celebration to our one year, 10/23/2021 and are doing a ceremony and everything as we had originally planned! I didn't wear my wedding dress for the elopement and we made it as short and simple as possible, I didn't want it to be a huge deal because I want our big wedding to still feel like our wedding day as much as possible! My dad did walk me down the aisle but he will again. Our guests know we got married, and I might put on the invites that it is a vow renewal but haven't decided yet!

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  • Nicole
    Master September 2020
    Nicole ·
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    We’re not doing another ceremony. We’ll just be hosting a reception (hopefully) in November. In my mind, deciding to get married outside of having the big wedding just means we accept that we didn’t have a few key moments. Since our wedding day in September was our wedding day, I don’t personally see the point in reliving that just so others can see a recreation of it. However, that’s my opinion and I know others want to do a ceremony in front of everyone. To each their own, in that respect.
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  • Yasmine
    Master October 2020
    Yasmine ·
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    Not weird at all, my husband and I are doing EVERYTHING over. My dad walked me down the aisle for our minimony and he will be walking me again for our big wedding. Go for it and plan the day that you actually want. Covid messed up a bunch for us brides, we deserve everything that we've wanted ❤️
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  • Lynnie
    WeddingWire Administrator October 2016
    Lynnie ·
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    Hi Haley! I don't think it's weird at all!! You can frame this ceremony as a unity ceremony where you recommit to your vows, or as a vow renewal! Smiley heart

    You can still do readings, a homily (speech), vows - the whole thing!

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  • Jessica
    Dedicated October 2021
    Jessica ·
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    Our reception is exactly one year after we got married and we are doing a vow renewal. We did standard vows when we got married so we are going to write our own vows this time. I think we are going to walk down the aisle together rather than have my dad walk me (he did when we got married). We had a priest officiate our wedding and my aunt will “officiate” the vow renewal. My godson is going to play music for the ceremony processional/recessional.
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