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Just Said Yes May 2025

2024 Small Wedding without a Wedding Party

Jennifer, on October 3, 2023 at 10:28 AM Posted in Planning 0 15
Hi!
Has anyone had any experience or have gone to a wedding where there was not a wedding/bridal party? I’m planning my wedding for 60 people or less and don’t feel the need to have a wedding party. I’m still planning on having a 15 minute short ceremony, but there wouldn’t be anyone else walking down the aisle or standing next to my fiancé and I at the altar. I’m just hoping it doesn’t seem odd to my guests that there is no wedding party so wanted to get everyone’s thoughts!

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Latest activity by Gina, on November 27, 2023 at 9:23 PM
  • Cece
    Rockstar October 2023
    Cece ·
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    I've attended multiple weddings where there was no wedding party. No one found it odd/awkward at all. I actually thought it was really sweet and intimate because all the focus was on the couple.

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  • Keri
    Keri ·
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    One of my friends got married years ago with no wedding party, and it opened my eyes. I decided I wanted to do it that way too. That's why our wedding will have no bridesmaids or groomsmen. There are other ways to include family and friends though if you want to. You can have your parents escorted down the aisle first. You can have someone come up and do a reading for you. Etc. But yes, it's very nice, intimate, romantic if it's only the couple up there. No worries at all.
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  • Andrea
    Rockstar January 2024
    Andrea ·
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    Yes, I’ve been to them before and no, it never seemed odd!
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  • Lisa
    Rockstar July 2022
    Lisa ·
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    I don't think it would be odd at all to not have a wedding party!
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    Champion July 2019
    Veronica ·
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    My sister-in-law didn't have a bridal party and no one thought it was weird.
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  • LM
    Super December 2022
    LM ·
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    I've even seen large weddings without wedding parties. I've read more couples want to focus their weddings on themselves now. We had 1 BM/ 1 MOH because my husband asked for it, but I would have been comfortable with none.

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  • Jacks
    Rockstar November 2054
    Jacks ·
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    Honestly I think it's genius.

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  • J
    Just Said Yes May 2025
    Jennifer ·
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    I appreciate everyone’s input on this! I was a little concerned on what people would think, but your responses helped a lot!
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  • Karissa
    Dedicated May 2023
    Karissa ·
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    I got married in May with no wedding party and honestly could not be happier with that decision! We invited 60 people and ended up with a final guest count of 53. We had our moms escorted by our brothers walk down the aisle ahead of my dad and I (my father-in-law is deceased and my husband did not want to walk). We incorporated a few family members as Keri mentioned above. In addition to walking down the aisle, my brother officiated, my sister-in-law did a reading, my dad carried the rings, and my mom held my bouquet during the ceremony. I cannot recommend this enough especially for a small wedding!

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  • Caryn
    Devoted November 2023
    Caryn ·
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    We will not be having a bridal party or anyone besides us. We will walk in together holding hands and walk out together holding hands.

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  • J
    Just Said Yes May 2025
    Jennifer ·
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    Thank you for sharing your info about your wedding Karissa!! This helped so much on how we can incorporate family also!


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    Just Said Yes May 2025
    Jennifer ·
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    I love that idea!! Thank you for sharing!
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    Veronica ·
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    We had no wedding party when we got married. We were both escorted down the aisle by both our parents. Because we had a religious ceremony, we had to have witnesses stand during the vows. We had our sisters act as witnesses, but they just stood during that part, they didn't process in or wear anything particular.

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  • Pirate & 60s Bride
    Legend March 2017
    Pirate & 60s Bride ·
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    We didn’t have a wedding party either! We walked down the aisle together (way less stressful). No drama, stress or extra cost for anyone.
    I got ready with my mom and sister so I still had “girl time” before the ceremony. Perfect!
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    Savvy September 2024
    Gina ·
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    This is exactly what we’re doing! No wedding party, and also a private ceremony with just our parents, followed by a formal introduction at our reception so the guests are somewhat included in the “I do” vibe. FH and I are both introverts and don’t want a ton of eyes on us during that very private moment. You may have a diff reason for omitting the ceremony but every reason is valid! don’t think it’s odd at all and your guests will still be thrilled to be celebrate your marriage!
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