2nd marriage and wedding registry

It's good to have things in a range of prices, but I've heard don't be afraid to register for big-ticket items you really want if several people want to get you a gift as a group. The most expensive things on our registries are $200. Don't feel pressured to register for things you don't want or need, if you have a small registry or no registry most people will get the hint and give cash. You may end up with a couple random off-registry gifts, but hopefully your guests know you don't need basic stuff like a toaster at this point.

Fill your registry with whatever you wish...Yes have different price points but also don't be afraid of adding more expensive items. One person may not be able to get you that $2500 tv but 10 people may be able to go in together to get yo the gift. Also list upgrades to your personal bed linens

I feel the same way.....I think if we do register its just for the discounts on the list of items not purchased if we want them....but we aren't having a shower......so how do people even know about the registry? I feel odd including it in the wedding invitation. I wouldnt do that

2nd time around for both of us, too. I was married for 23 years, him for 18. Our kids are grown and gone, and we have less than 5 years to retirement. We are moving to our new (to us) home 45 days after the wedding, and will be furnishing it then from our combined things that we currently have, or deciding on a decor at that time, but haven't decided yet on exactly what, so even upgraded linens seems stupid to me now.

A few have asked about where we're registered. Almost everyone is from out of town, and we know it was a huge financial commitment just to come to the wedding (airfare, hotel), so we asked for absolutely nothing at all. I'm sure we'll get cards, or other random things, all of which will be graciously and gratefully accepted and properly thanked, but I really hope our guests come just to have a good time with us and enjoy our special day.