So I'm in one of my friends weddings as a bridesmaid, and she is getting married this November. She is having her bachelorette party over the summer though since the weather will be nice. She just informed me her bachelorette party will be 4 days long!! I was a little taken back. We are going Or of town to the beach and to the bars in Portland. It just seems so excessive to me to be gone for four days. Am I wrong to feel not as excited as I am for it? Does that make me a bad friend? I just really didn't want to be gone for four days, especially when it's 3 weeks before my own wedding and I'll have a lot going on.