74% of men would have an affair if they knew they would never get caught.

I would never cheat, and I never have. I've been cheated on, and once I was the other woman, and didn't know that was a hard one for me to get over. I felt so guilty.

I have been cheated on. I have been the other woman (until I found out he was married, and dropped him quicker than a hot potato). They are two moments in my life where I felt like sh*t. It took me a long time to forgive myself for being with someone else's husband. I still feel dumb for not knowing. But then I realized that he was the one who was wrong, not me.

I have no desire to be with anyone other than FH. I have played both sides of the fence and there is no other human being that was meant for me to be with. I am pretty sure my FH feels the same way.

Yes, one time I didn't know I was the other woman also. The first time though I was 19 going out with some engaged guy and I really didn't feel bad until I got older.

I would never cheat. If I was unhappy and I have done this in the past, I ended things prior to starting a new relationship. It sometimes shocked the other person, but for me that was the right way to handle things. I can't imagine cheating on FH and I can't imagine him cheating on me. I trust him whole heartedly. Also I seriously believe that emotional cheating is just as bad as physical cheating. I don't care if no one would find out if I cheated because I would always know. Isn't that enough? If you know, that's really what matters and if you can live with that and not tell your significant other out of guilt I think that says a lot about you as a person. Sorry for putting it bluntly.

I have been cheated on in the past, it was terrible and the only way I found out was that my bf got mono from the other girl. it was lovely. I then got mono. Sucked in so many ways.

I believe I was cheated on, but we broke up shortly there after and I have never asked him. It was 8 years ago, so no big deal now.

I couldn't cheat. I think the guilt would just eat me alive and I would have to confess shortly after doing it. Couldn't imagine hurting my DH that much. Plus both of us have said cheating is immediate grounds for divorce. I constitute cheating as having sex with someone who is not your spouse.

I would never cheat i have been cheated on so i know how it feels.

I'll just say I have cheated twice and neither one of them ever found out.... Then karma got me and I was cheated on and it literally destroyed me. Never again.

If FH ever cheats on me then it better be before we get married because afterwards, I will take him for everything I can.

However, I know him and I am confident he would never do that.

I'm with Amy A. on doubting those statistics. It seems to me that last time we saw something like this, the statistics came from a website designed to help married guys find partners to cheat with.

I think today we live in a disposable society. If it doesn't work then get out & find something else. People don't want to put time into relationships. Relationships & marriages are work. I think one of the hardest things is people become unhappy, but fail to communicate because they are afraid of the response. I have been guilty of this.

I would never cheat on FH.

I believe my ex cheated on me but never comforted him, I just left him and now he's happy with her, which at first broke my heart because my suspicions were true.

but I could careless as long they're happy and make my tears worth it.

I'm completely happy with Niall and I wouldn't let him go through what I did. and I know he wouldn't cheat on me because he hates nothing more than people who cheat for personal reasons.

I don't believe people can say they will "never" do something.

I wouldn't cheat. I've been cheated on and it isn't worth the hurt that it causes the other person; or the assumed guilt it would cause, so when I say never, I mean never. I've never understood cheating or why people do it. Like seriously, if they're not worth being faithful to, just stay single and sleep around. Simple.

@D.: Well, I supposed I'm as close to being able to say I will "never" cheat as anyone. I was married to my ex-husband for nearly 20 years. During the last 6 years of that time, he was only able/willing to have sex about 3 times a year. During the last 3 years of that time, he was constantly telling me that if things didn't improve, he was leaving. Yet I remained faithful until he made the final decision to leave me.

Yeah, and I bet that about 70 percent of them would be so freaked out about possibly getting caught they wouldn't be able to function enough to pull it off.