I would like to ask 9 friends to be groomsmen but I do think that is too many. I would prefer 5 or 6 but just can't seem to trim my list without offending someone. The are all good friends. So I've come to the conclusion that it will either be all or nothing. Meaning I would either have all 9 or just have a best man and my brother in law for 2. If I did that my fiancé would have 2 brides maids. I feel like I might miss the others as my groomsmen though if I did that (although it's probably less of a headache for them not being one). What are some thoughts on this? If we did 9/5 is that too much and would that take away too much attention to the bride/groom? I keep going back and forth on this and need to make a decision soon. Thanks for any advice
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