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Caitlyn
Dedicated October 2021

95 days - stressed out.

Caitlyn, on July 19, 2021 at 10:13 PM Posted in Family and Relationships 0 4
Hey y’all! We’re 95 days away from our October wedding. I’m so excited but extremely stressed out. I had my “meet the gown” appointment this past weekend and I need to get on scheduling my alterations appointment ASAP. Two of my bridesmaids, my MOH and my step mom came with me. One of the first comments that was made when we started walking into the shop was that we don’t want them wearing sneakers and they’re salty about it because my FW and I are wearing them. ?!?! Ugh. That comment pissed me off so bad and I wanted to shove them out right then and there. Later at brunch more comments were made about how they were so happy to have me to themselves for once. Made comments on how they don’t know the last time they saw me without my FW. As far as I’m aware no one has any issues with her. And yes, we are almost always together because we live 3.5 hours away so when we come home we like to see each others families together as a couple. And trust me, we are not the couple that are up eachothers butts the whole time. We’re likely in different rooms have different conversations.


I just needed to vent. Most of our planning is done and we don’t have much stressful pieces left, just minor decor details, music, etc. The little things like this are really getting on my nerves. It feels like all my family/bridal party wants to do is nag on every decision we’ve made.

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Latest activity by Melissa, on July 20, 2021 at 11:07 AM
  • Yasmine
    Master October 2020
    Yasmine ·
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    I wouldn't worry about it, their comments weren't rude they just stated how they feel. Try not to stress about little things or you'll be VERY stressed on the days leading to your wedding. Take some time to yourself to relax
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  • Ashlee
    Super September 2022
    Ashlee ·
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    Don't stress about the comments. My friends love hanging out with both me and my FH but they enjoy the time just us too. I think it's important to have that balance.

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  • M
    VIP August 2021
    Michelle ·
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    Your friends want to spend non-wedding time with you, too. It's also good for you to just enjoy friendships outside of planning. As for alterations, it is best to book within 1-1.5 months of your wedding in case there are body changes.

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  • Melissa
    Dedicated October 2021
    Melissa ·
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    Try not to stress...hang in there...we got this...mine is now 80 days away...#nervous
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