a second wedding

Due to Covid, my fiancé and I moved our full ceremony and reception to next June. But, we decided to host a small, intimate ceremony on June 6, 2020 (our original date) so we can still be married. As we are preparing for the small ceremony, my parents and his parents keep pushing for us to invite all these additional family members, when we decided on just our parents, siblings, and grandparents. This wedding is coming out of our own pockets, so we are trying to keep costs low, but mom keeps guilting me by saying that we should do all we can this time in case things aren’t better by next June. I feel like I am losing my grip on my own wedding. Plus, they want us to invite all these people, but no one is offering additional financial help. I am at my wits end and am wanting to cancel the whole thing and just go to the court house. Please help!