This might be kinda long lol but I could use some advice
So my FH's best friend and Best Man (we'll call him Kyle) has a long time girlfriend (we'll call her Katie) I had only hung out with Kyle and Katie a few times before they moved out of state and when FH and I got engaged I initially thought about asking Katie to be a bridesmaid and then changed my mind because I didn't know if we were close enough friends. We get along really well but just hadn't spent much time together at that point. In the past few months we have spent more time together (went on vacation and stayed with them, she's come back to visit a couple times, and they both flew out for our engagement party) and we've been talking pretty regularly. My question is: is it rude to ask her to be a bridesmaid after everyone else has already been asked? I really would like to have her in the party, but I don't want her to feel bad that she wasn't asked with everyone else.
