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Blanca
Devoted July 2017

Adding more lace appliqué to dress?

Blanca, on May 20, 2017 at 6:10 PM Posted in Wedding Attire 0 49

I've been doubting my wedding dress as the day gets closer and it's getting me very anxious. I received a few negative and passive aggressive comments. One said my dress was "simple" but happy to see be look happy and "to be ready to be criticized" because its not white.

I'm not one to

Care much about what people say or think but this time around with my wedding, I find myself overthinking ALL details. I am definitely feeling the pressure from people and just pray that I will look good for the big day. I try to brush off all negative comments but its just so hurtful that its hard to just ignore them! The more I look at my dress, the more I feel like its missing more appliqués.

Do you know what kind of lace this is or where can I find lace appliqués?

49 Comments

Latest activity by Jess'sgirl, on May 22, 2017 at 7:34 PM
  • Blanca
    Devoted July 2017
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  • Future_Mrs.Jackson
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    Could we maybe get a picture of you in the dress or just a full length picture of the dress itself? From the close up I think it looks ok but I'd like to see the entire dress.

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  • Blanca
    Devoted July 2017
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  • Amanda
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    People get petty and rude when it comes to weddings. Your dress is anything BUT plain or simple so I don't know where this bish gets off saying that to you. I guarantee your dress is a showstopper and no one will think it is anything less than amazing. I don't think you need to add anything more, it's so beautiful as is.

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  • Bee
    Master April 2017
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    I would leave it the way it is because it's stunning.

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  • CandiedPeach100317
    Devoted October 2017
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    What, who called that dress simple? It's absolutely beautiful, and I don't think you should listen to them at all. As for it being not white, a lot of brides don't wear stark white anymore. There are plenty of brides who get married in bright colors. In fact, that's what I was expecting from the opening comment you made. Please don't heed these comments. After seeing your dress, I personally think they're blind, or crazy, or both.

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  • michelle d
    VIP January 2018
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    It is not simple. It is beautiful. I would leave it how it is. You want to wear the dress. You don't want the dress to wear you.

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  • Sarah
    Super June 2017
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    Second @amanda

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  • Grace
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    ^ I second @CandiedPeach that dress is anything but plain. Also, almost nobody goes with stark white. There was just a thread in here last week about those who are wearing Ivory or Champagne or Blush instead of stark white. Overwhelmingly so too. You look amazing, don't let jealous bishes get you down!

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  • MrsRushinin2018
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    Jeesh got to love the frenemies that come out of the woodwork when planning a wedding!

    OP, you look gorgeous in your dress - Wear it with pride!

    FH, MOH, and I visited our reception venue today at the invitation of our WC and ran into the bride taking pictures in the courtyard. She couldn't have been a day over 20 and was wearing an ivory dress so the whole "not white" philosophy can be damned. It seems more unusual to wear bright white than it is to wear an off white now.

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  • F
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    Your dress is GORGEOUS and you will look beautiful on your wedding day. Dont listen to the negative comments, sounds like people maybe have a touch of jealousy or envy and its bringing out the catty side of them. You rock that dress and have a phenomenal wedding!

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  • D&G114
    Super January 2018
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    I would not add any more lace to the dress. Where would you even add it?

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  • Phil
    Super October 2017
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    I love that dress!!! I've noticed that a strong backbone is needed when planning a wedding....with family members, co workers, vendors, and especially haters!

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  • Addison
    Super June 2017
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    Wow! You look stunning in that dress and I don't think you need anything else added!

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  • Rebecca
    Super September 2017
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    Your dress is absolutely beautiful. Don't doubt it!

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  • Jennifer
    Expert June 2018
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    That dress is beautiful. You don't need to add anything to it.

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  • Ashley
    Devoted October 2017
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    Thats far from simple. Its beautiful and you look great. I dont think it needs anything

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  • Cass
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    Honestly that dress is anything but simple. Keep it! Haters gonna hate!

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  • S
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    I agree with everyone else! That dress isn't simple! And the scattered lace in the back is absolutely gorgeous and different.

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  • Becky
    Expert January 2018
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    I agree with PPs, you and your dress are stunning. It's not simple at all! It has tons of detailing and is very elegant. TBH if you added more appliques then I think it would look too busy/crowded. Everyone who's hating can STFU because they are flat out wrong.

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