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Blanca
Devoted July 2017

Adding more lace appliqué to dress?

Blanca, on May 20, 2017 at 6:10 PM

Posted in Wedding Attire 49

I've been doubting my wedding dress as the day gets closer and it's getting me very anxious. I received a few negative and passive aggressive comments. One said my dress was "simple" but happy to see be look happy and "to be ready to be criticized" because its not white. I'm not one to Care much...

I've been doubting my wedding dress as the day gets closer and it's getting me very anxious. I received a few negative and passive aggressive comments. One said my dress was "simple" but happy to see be look happy and "to be ready to be criticized" because its not white.

I'm not one to

Care much about what people say or think but this time around with my wedding, I find myself overthinking ALL details. I am definitely feeling the pressure from people and just pray that I will look good for the big day. I try to brush off all negative comments but its just so hurtful that its hard to just ignore them! The more I look at my dress, the more I feel like its missing more appliqués.

Do you know what kind of lace this is or where can I find lace appliqués?

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  • Blanca
    Devoted July 2017
    Blanca ·
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    @Vanessa A.

    I know that feeling! When I first saw this dress in the hanger, I fell in love, I couldn't wait to try it on. I tried on about 10 until I finally tried this on. My mom said "that's the one!" I couldn't stop smiling. Then, three days later my uncle's wife calls me saying she wanted to please give her the "privilege" to see me try on wedding dresses, so I now regret it, but I said yes. We went back to try on dresses and she convinced me to change this dress. Two months passed, I picked up my second dress and trued it on and just cried! It just didn't feel like it was my dress. So I told the lady that was helping me and they exchanged it back to this one! Thankfully they were able to do the exchange. When I told my uncle's wife she made the ugliest face and said "well, that dress is vulgar" and "its not white, be ready to be criticized" and its "too simple, it needs more of this and that"

    I honestly tried to ignore it. Now those comments hurt because I cant focus on loving the dress, I'm now concerned of others reaction and how they will criticize my dress. Oh! Forgot to mention that I dated my uncle's wife's brother so she feels like she's still my SIL and is bitter I didn't end up with him perhaps lol

    All of you have helped me with your comments, so thank you so much.

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  • cantwait4thedate
    VIP November 2017
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    @Blanca, that explains it. She is being a bitter old Bitch, so do not give her any credit at all!! The only thing vulgar here is her attitude!! Your dress is beautiful and you look amazing in it!!!!

    WTF is wrong with people????? Seriously, if she says one other thing, tell her that if she makes one more mean comment she can consider herself uninvited because YOUR day is for people who love and support you, not people who feel the need to be hateful and make mean comments.

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  • nolalishak
    Master June 2017
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    Ok what the f is simple about that dress? They are jealous lol

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  • TAP
    Master September 2018
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    That dress is gorgeous and should stay as is!

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  • Jess
    Super October 2017
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    Oh my that's perfect! There's nothing 'too simple' about it and I would not add anything else. It's lovely on you

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  • Morgan
    Dedicated September 2018
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    Your dress is gorgeous!

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  • Vanessa
    Super November 2017
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    @Blanca R. Oh wow!! She should see how amazing you look in that dress and just be happy for you. Don't let her get to you, your dress is beautiful.

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  • Teri
    VIP May 2017
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    That dress isn't simple. It's breathtaking beautiful. You look gorgeous. Stop listening to the negative comments.

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  • Jess'sgirl
    VIP November 2018
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    It sounds like she just wanted to trap you, for some reason. Good on ya for going with your gut!! That dress is stunning!

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