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Molly
VIP September 2020

Adding to your family!

Molly, on October 1, 2020 at 12:38 PM

Posted in Married Life 68

Are you planning on adding to your family after your wedding? Or if you have already gotten married have you started trying to add to your family? (Fur babies count too!) Are you going to wait a while? My husband is ready to start trying to conceive! I have been ready for a while, but I wanted to be...

Are you planning on adding to your family after your wedding? Or if you have already gotten married have you started trying to add to your family? (Fur babies count too!) Are you going to wait a while?

My husband is ready to start trying to conceive! I have been ready for a while, but I wanted to be married first. We are so excited to be trying for a baby, but we are also terrified! Having a tiny human that is half of me and half of my very best friend would be amazing! On the other hand it is scary to think about miscarriage and infertility. As of right now I have gotten my BC removed and if it happens it happens!

What are you and you significant others plans to add to your family, if you want to add to your family?

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  • Molly
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    That sounds great! Adoption is always great! We have two fur babies our self!

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  • Anna
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    We’re planning to start trying as soon as we get married. Infertility and miscarriage are definitely concerns and finances will always be an issue for us, but we’re trusting that God has a plan for us and that children are part of that plan.
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  • Molly
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    Awesome! I hope it goes well!
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  • Rebecca
    Just Said Yes October 2021
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    We have two cats and are thinking about fostering after we get married since two cats is more than enough! As for human kids, definitely not right away. My fiance said if we don't have kids by the time he's 40 (currently 31) then we might as well just skip that. So that pretty much gives me 8-9 years to think about it, LOL.


    If we do have kids, we'll be older parents which honestly, I don't understand the stigma but I know I'll have to prepare myself for it. A lot of my friends are having kids now, in their late 20s so I would be waiting almost a decade before having them, but I'm fine with that. I want to enjoy our marriage as just the two of us and do everything we wanna do while we still have the ability before hunkering down and taking care of kids. I don't see myself doing that now.
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  • Molly
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    Fostering a cat would be fun! I my dad was almost 40 when I was born and it didn't really seem weird to me. The only comments I got was in elementary school of he went on a field trip people would ask why I brought my grandpa, but we both always laughed it off. My dad went grey in his 20s so it wouldn't have made a difference if he had me any younger.

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  • Rebecca
    Just Said Yes October 2021
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    That gives me hope! ❤ tenor.gif

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  • Molly
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    Awesome! I hope it all works out!

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  • Molly
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    Awesome! I hope it all works out Smiley heart

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