I'm looking for some advice about the etiquette for addressing the save the dates and wedding invitations.
For save the dates, can we exclude the Mr., Ms., Mrs., etc.? Or do those need to be included as well? Also, can we put nicknames or should we include the full formal name?
For wedding invitations, I know the standard way to address an opposite-sex married couple with the same last name is "Mr. and Mrs. John Doe". However, is anyone else including the wife's name as well ("Mr. John and Mrs. Jane Doe" or "Mr. John Doe and Mrs. Jane Doe") or have you seen that on wedding invitations recently? I know this is definitely a more modern way to address opposite-sex married couples with the same last name, but it's what my fiancé and I are leaning toward.
Thanks!