Good Morning!
My husband are newly weds of about 3ish months. We recently were discussing holiday time spending with both of our families. Because my brother is coming from NY to Virginia, he will be splitting his time of 10 days between my mom’s house and his dad’s house. My brother will be staying at my mom’s house starting on Christmas. Each year he takes turns staying at my mom’s or his dad’s on Christmas Day. Anyways so my husband and I discussed doing Christmas with his family on Christmas Eve and then doing our own on Christmas morning and afterwords going to my mom’s. Next year it will flip. He brought up recently that he wants us to see his family on Christmas Day and I didn’t think it would work because between our own, then going to my moms then going to his parents house on top of the fact I have to somehow juggle doing pet visits closer to our own place which will take 3 hours spread out between 3 visits for each day. Now we are arguing because he doesn’t think it will be that difficult but I disagree because it is going to be too much for me in one day and I don’t want to be warn out and not enjoying Christmas. Any suggestions..? I have tried explaining everything to him at first upset then again when I was calm and he doesn’t get it.
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