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Just Said Yes June 2021

Advice for June 2021 bride?

Tiaona, on November 11, 2020 at 8:33 PM Posted in Planning 0 5
Hi everyone! I’m in a bit of a dilemma (along with many others I’m sure). The uncertainty of covid in June is driving me crazy and I may be sounding stubborn, but I do not want to pay all that money for a venue to have crazy restrictions. We are debating on just having a smaller backyard wedding so we can still dance the night away with our families. My fiancé is going to be a wildland firefighter in California, meaning likely he won’t be home for our anniversary’s. The main reason we shot for June was because of the weather and it was the soonest our venue had open. However, I’m now even thinking about saying screw it and having a backyard wedding even sooner so we could share our anniversaries together. What do you all think? Are anniversaries are that important to move our wedding up closer and for sure have a backyard wedding, or should we wait it out so see our chances for June and likely not spend our anniversaries together? My brain is going in a million directions!

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Latest activity by Lynnie, on November 12, 2020 at 1:44 PM
  • Mrs. Spring
    Master April 2021
    Mrs. Spring ·
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    I wouldn't want to put in a lot of money for an event that may have restrictions. I wouldn't risk it.
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  • Diane
    Savvy October 2022
    Diane ·
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    I live in NJ and recently indoor dining was further restricted despite the fact that there have been no spikes in cases from indoor dining, additionally health officials have stated that masks and social distancing will be required for at least another year.


    Deaths and hospitalizations are not out of control (hen the Governor isn’t forcing LTCFs to admit COViD+ patients) most cases are nothing more than the common cold. We are looking into a much smaller destination wedding and mask requirements are an absolute deal breaker. If we can not have the wedding we want there won’t be a wedding.
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  • Michelle
    Master April 2021
    Michelle ·
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    Feel you girl. My fiancé is a full time firefighter & he also does wild land assignments during the summer months. Nothing is ever planned during the summer. When deciding on dates, we narrowed it down a lot. Nothing from the beginning on May to the beginning of October. I don’t want to spend our anniversaries alone. We chose April.
    My fiancé is starting to worry about the restrictions but I told him that regardless we’re getting married on 4/3/21 but the only thing that might change is the guest list.
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  • Yasmine
    Master October 2020
    Yasmine ·
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    If celebrating an anniversary is important to you then go for it and move it earlier. That will probably add more stress though depending on your guest count
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  • Lynnie
    WeddingWire Administrator October 2016
    Lynnie ·
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    If spending your anniversaries apart is already weighing on your mind, I'd move your date up!! ❤️

    Or you could do a small backyard wedding sooner, and keep the June plans in place (and re-evaluate based on restrictions closer to that event date)!

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