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Just Said Yes October 2018

Advice needed!! Uninvited my sister to our destination wedding

Natalia, on June 11, 2018 at 7:37 PM Posted in Family and Relationships 0 2
With out going into a long story my sister blew up on me calling me selfish because I assumed she and her fiancé would drive my future sister in law to the airport after we all went dress shopping (we drove over an hour to her house near Philadelphia and he offered to drive us into the city so we wouldn’t have to park). After we dropped my future sister in law off at the airport and drove back to my sister house she went off on me about how selfish I am for assuming they would drive her to the airport (15 min from the dress shop), that she should have taken an Uber, that I shouldn’t of even invited her. Granted my sister In law has done nothing but be supportive and excited for our wedding unlike my sister. I apologized to her and her fiancé but the last straw was when she started saying that my fiancé is “the worst person she’s ever met, he’s horrible” For no reason my fiancé has never done anything to her and he even helped her move! At that point I told her don’t come to my wedding. The problem is that we are having a destination wedding and she and her fiancé already booked their tickets. We are having a VERY small wedding only about 8 people. I don’t want someone who isn’t happy for me and my fiancé or can say such awful things about him at our wedding. Or for her presence to make it awkward or dampen the mood since this was about a month and a half ago and she has not reached out what so ever. Advice???

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Latest activity by MrsV1027, on June 12, 2018 at 10:33 AM
  • Neffe
    Master July 2020
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    Hi Natalia! Welcome to the WeddingWire Community! Smiley ring I am sorry to hear about your situation. I would try reconsidering your decision to uninvite her, especially since she and her fiance have already booked their tickets. I believe you all should try working through this; I know hurtful things have been said, but I think you all can move past this. Just think; would you really want your sister to miss one of the biggest, most special moments of your life? I hope you both are able to put this behind you and work something out! Hang in there!

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  • MrsV1027
    Master October 2018
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    Why would she reach out to you if you are the one who told her not to come? Try reaching out to her and have lunch with her and talk about it. Do you really want to ruin your relationship with her or are you willing to be the bigger person and try to make things right?

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