First of all, I am not the one getting married. My boyfriend's brother is. Let me start: I have been dating my boyfriend for 18 months. I am extremely close to his family-his mom and I go shopping, out to lunch often. This is not the case with my boyfriend's brother's fiance, who we will call "Sasha". Sasha has been dating my boyfriend's brother-we'll call him "Christian" for 3 years now. In that whole time, Sasha has never tried to form a relationship with anyone in the family-she avoids them whenever she can. Sasha is extremely close to her own family, which is very large-she also works in their family business.
Sasha and Christian's mom-I'll call her "Diane" have a very, very bad relationship. I have no idea why. From day one, Diane has been more than welcoming and warm to me, including me in all family vacation, holidays. Anyway, Sasha and Christians' engagement last January was an unwelcome surprise, with many in the family expressing dismay-privately to Christian, because Sasha has never tried to be friendly or come to family occasions, etc. I have no idea what was said, but due to the tension, Sasha and her family have decided that Christian's family will have no part in any wedding preparations-the wedding is next year-they will just be guests.
I have told Diane that this is not right and she should speak out. Diane did speak out, only to be iced out further. I told Sasha that she should extend an olive branch and Sasha told me it was none of my business
So, here is the kicker: my boyfriend and I live together and while we each have our own laptops, we have a desktop we also share. So yesterday, I sat down and was ready to shop on Amazon, when I saw my boyfriend left up his email and the email was from Christian, telling my boyfriend that Sasha's family is planning to do both a girl's trip for her, her side of the family and bridesmaids and also do a bridal shower and Diane will not be invited.
I told my boyfriend about the email and said it wasn't right. He agreed, but Christian says that Diane and Sasha don't get along and this is for the best. I didn't agree and I told Diane about it, because I feel it's not right.
Diane called Sasha and cussed her out and then yelled at Christian. Word has gotten around that I was the one that "squealed" but I don't see what the big deal is. No one is being honest with Diane and it is not right she is excluded.
My boyfriend was upset at first ,but now he's like, things will work themselves out. Sasha and Diane are not talking and Sasha has me blocked from her social media. Was I wrong?