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Luis
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Luis, on May 31, 2022 at 12:06 AM Posted in Family and Relationships 1 6
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Ok just had my wedding, it was such an amazing day, and I couldn’t have asked for more. There was however a little bit of drama at the reception, my MOH’s husband took advantage of the open bar and basically chugged ALOT of alcohol to where the bartender cut him off after dinner. He got very drunk very fast, to where my guests noticed. Took a few of the friends of the groom to get him to chill out. He didn’t cause a huge scene(fighting or anything) but people could notice something was up. He has apologized but it was through texts and to me that’s not really meaningful, but I’m not sure if the friendship will be the same, we’re all friends too. Any advice? Anyone else go through anything like this ??

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Latest activity by Lucy, on June 1, 2022 at 12:39 PM
  • mrswinteriscoming
    VIP December 2021
    mrswinteriscoming ·
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    I can fully understand that this would be really disappointing but personally if I were in your shoes, I would accept the apology and move on.

    He made a fool of himself but has acknowledged his wrongdoing and apologised for it - he wasn't the first to get hammered at a wedding and won't be the last, but I really don't think you should let this get in the way of your friendship, particularly since it sounds like he embarrassed himself more than anything else.

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  • Cece
    Rockstar October 2023
    Cece ·
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    I completely agree with this. Who knows, maybe he just hadn’t eaten enough that day and got intoxicated more quickly than he would have normally. It doesn’t sound as though he did anything with malicious intent, and he didn’t make a huge disruptive scene that ruined your reception. Everyone makes mistakes. I would accept his apology and move on.
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  • Sarah
    Master September 2019
    Sarah ·
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    I don't really understand why he owes you an apology to begin with so I'd accept his apology and move on. People get drunk at weddings all the time. Sometimes it's on purpose and sometimes it's not. If he didn't cause a scene, what's the issue?
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  • M
    VIP August 2021
    Michelle ·
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    Move on. He didn't have malicious intent and didn't cause conflicts with others. You otherwise had an "amazing" day. If you choose to mar your friendship because of this, it is more reflective of your judgmental personality.

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  • Bird
    Super June 2021
    Bird ·
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    Maybe he’s embarrassed and felt more comfortable texting you instead of calling.
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  • L
    Devoted April 2023
    Lucy ·
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    100% agree with Sarah!!

    Plus you can't go back in time so move on, unless you want to end the friendship with your MOH and her husband? Sounds like it's such a big deal to the point you would consider it...

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