Hi Brides
This is totally not wedding related, I just need to rant. I think I’m going to distance myself from my best friend and I want some unbiased opinions on whether I’m doing the right thing, or if I’m being totally irrational.
I met my best friend a few years ago and it was wonderful. She was supportive, intellectually great to talk to, there for me when I needed her, we travelled the world etc.
In recent months however she’s changed, I’ve noticed she’s become quite judgmental and has to have her two cents put in everything - I can’t do something without her commenting. Ie
1) told her my wedding dress was a lace mermaid style like I wanted but joked that I’d struggle to go to the bathroom since it was so tight fitted - ‘oh well I knew I should have gone shopping with you! I would’ve made you get something you could actually walk in’
2) my fiancé is scared of flying and now I am also quite scared myself having developed the fear recently - she told me ‘I’ll get you and [FH] therapy lessons for your wedding present!’
3) we were talking about how we nice as it is to have money, most people aren’t loaded, so when I said ‘I’d rather be a poor man’s wife but be happy than in a loveless marriage to a rich man’ she was quick to tell me that I failed miserably at finding a rich husband!
Half the time she is ‘joking’ and isn’t malicious but it’s just infuriating. If we used to speak non stop every day, in the last few months I feel like every time I talk to her she says something rude or that’s totally none of her business and it’s exhausting! Am I wrong for wanting to distance myself a bit?
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