Something that is currently weighing on me is whether or not to serve alcohol at our wedding in October.
My Fiance is in AA and has been in recovery for 3 years now. We have discussed a wedding long before getting he engaged and he had made a comment that he did not want to serve alcohol. However, some of his friends in recovery have made various comments over the last month about their wedding and how they served alcohol as their addiction was not everyone else's problem.
While I myself, my family, his family, friends, etc are extremely supportive of his recovery, I struggle with the thought of this. Anytime he is at a family function where this is alcohol, everyone knows not to offer any to him. I rarely drink since we've been together as I don't drink in front of him, only when I am out with friends. I still believe it would reasonable to serve Beer (he was addicted to hard liqours like Vodka). I have never been a huge drinker -- see more in comment