Some backstory... My bachelorette was in Charleston, SC July 2020 before my husband and I got legally married after postponing our big wedding to this year. I wanted to do something that everyone would feel comfortable doing and keep it on the east coast so that we could drive and avoid flying. It was more low key than what we had originally planned (NYC weekend), but I still enjoyed it. We rented a beach house and mostly just went to the beach, had a few nice dinners, and brunch. During the planning, one my bridesmaids was voicing a lot of concern which is understandable, but was also trying to have control over a lot things... I heard her and agreed that we shouldn't do any indoor activities or be around a lot of people. The one thing I really wanted to do was go to an outdoor winery and she said no, it would be too risky. During the trip, she was just being not very much fun. I hate that my main memories of my bachelorette were her being really grouchy and bossing everyone around. Plus, she left the group twice to go see her fiance's family that lives in the area.
Fast-foward to now, her bachelorette is this week in Arizona. Covid is a lot worse than it was when we went on my trip... like double the cases compared to then. But she is asking everyone to fly out there and we are doing like 2-3 activities per day that involve being around people/taking Ubers etc. She is very unwilling to compromise now that it's her turn and things still haven't gotten better Covid-wise. I'm just super annoyed about going on this trip remembering what she put me through and I can't seem to let it go. Idk if there's a solution to this other than suck it up and treat her how I wish she would have treated me. I just needed to vent.