Hi!
My fiancé and I are getting married next year, we’re having a destination wedding across the country. We plan to fly out there twice next year, once for taste testing, hair trial, etc. the next for the actual wedding. My sister-in-law, my fiancé’s husband’s wife, wants to fly out to Iceland next year as well and do a family trip because my fiancé’s mother really wants to see the northern lights. They’ve offered to pay for our flights. However, my fiancé and I are worried that we won’t be able to afford to pay for everything else such as hotel, food, activities, etc. because we’re paying for the wedding out of pocket (we don’t want to take out any loans) we also don’t want to stress out about a big family trip when we have our wedding and honeymoon to stress about. Our honeymoon would be in Hawaii for about 2 weeks. The wedding came before the Iceland idea. My sister-in-law doesn’t want to go to Iceland in 2025 like I suggested because her and her husband are planning to start trying for a baby that year and says it’ll probably be difficult to have a baby/be pregnant and fly to Iceland. Do you think my fiancé and I are being selfish by not wanting to go on the trip the same year as our wedding?
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