Okay some backstory, so I'm a bridesmaid in a wedding for a childhood friend of mine and so far everything involving actually needing the bridesmaids to get along has been a disaster. We've essentially split into two groups of similar-minded people and neither group gets along. It's been super fun lol.
The bachelorette party is this weekend, and the MOH didn't end up planning it so I planned it with the bride because I had time. Now, the MOH has decided because she's the MOH that she's in charge of the entire thing when she had no part in it. Whatever, I'm not dealing with that so I'm letting it slide. Suddenly, the girls in the other "group" texted our entire bridesmaid group chat telling the rest of us what we will be doing for the weekend without asking any of the people who have actually made plans for the weekend to figure out what we've planned. Arguing and fighting ensued and things are looking great for this weekend away!
But! There's more! So the place we are staying at is in my name, so I need to be there at check-in. We picked this location because it's closer to the bride even though it's a multiple hour drive for the rest of us. MOH starts mentioning that someone needs to pick up the bride & bring her to the place we're staying. The bride lives closer than anyone else who will be there and it's out of anyone's way to pick her up. I told MOH that it makes no sense, she can drive herself because she lives close, and that's when she tells me that the bride believes she shouldn't have to use her car and put miles on it for her own bachelorette party!! What?!
Guys, I cannot wait for this to be over. I'm definitely mostly just venting here, but am I crazy for thinking that the bride's request is insane? I am counting down the days until my "service" is up and I don't have to deal with this anymore.
