Hi guys! I could really use some advice here. This will be long, but I'll try to condense it the best I can. I've been really stressed out by my FH's work situation.
The backstory is that I went to school and got my degree in theatre (which doesn't open up a whole lot of doors work wise) so I've been working my way up through some different jobs and in May landed something pretty decent, but I don't know how much more room there is for me to grow, pay wise at least.
When I met my fiance he had dropped out of college because of his mom passing, which is totally understandable. And when I met him he was just finishing up a course to certify him for IT, which he got a job in soon after. He's since moved to another company and we make the same now. He originally was studying coding in college, so in April, right after we got engaged, he decided to take a 6 month class (while working full time) so that he could move into coding and make a considerable amount more. He'd still have to work an entry level job making about the same as he is now, but after that he would have better opportunities. The issue comes here, the class ended in September and he's been dragging his feet about getting a new job. He's been working a little bit with a career coach and has everything ready to basically just blast out job applications. But he's not. We've talked about it several times, but he still doesn't seem motivated. And monetarily wise now we get by and will have enough for our wedding, but in the future we both want to be able to afford a house and children. And it feels like a red flag because I see both his dad and his brother be really lazy and procrastinate. I love this man with all my heart, but this whole situation has been making me so anxious and frustrated and I'm not sure what to do.
I just really need some outside opinions here. Am I overacting and should just let it go? Or is this something you would be concerned about too? Any advice on how to bring this up with him?
Thanks all