Hey Guys,
I just want to start off by saying I fully appreciate my fiancé, my fiancé's family, my friends, and my family very very much. That being said, since I announced my engagement I feel like I have been on my own with all of the planning...
I will admit I am a go-getter type and can handle executing any and all wedding related events. I have planned every event myself and feel as though I have to beg to get anyone interested in participating in the planning. My mother and mother-in-law are not the planning type. That is okay because I am willing to help them, but I am extremely overwhelmed at this point.
I have planned my own engagement party, 2 wedding showers, my honeymoon, and the wedding ON MY OWN. My bridesmaids took over one shower which was helpful but that was after I asked them to get started on it for three months.
If you are familiar with DISC Assessments, I am high in the D category so I get tasks done quickly and asap. I understand no one feels the level of urgency I feel but I am the bride and I have a lot on my plate. Planning a wedding shower two weeks before it happens is not something I can adjust to.. SO I choose to get it done two months early and by myself.
Please give me some advice. I am trying to keep it together but I have a shower in 10 days and my mother-in-law has yet to rent a tent, chairs, etc. I am trying so hard not to step in but I feel I have no choice. My fiancé tells me to "let it fail if it is to fail or let it succeed if it is going to succeed" but I don't know how..
I have high anxiety from all of this, a high level job I work at 50 hours a week, I just recovered from COVID and have lasting lung disabilities, not to mention the financial burden of all of this...