Am I The Only One That Thinks I Will be Too Tired to "Consummate" My Marriage? lol!

You guys are hilarious! knowing my mom she would do the same thing except she would ask "Are you guys having sex in there?!"

@jen pillow over the face...priceless! hehe

She also had the nerve to ask, "are you busy" my reply: "Do you really want me to answer that mom?, Please go away!" DS and I could not stop laughing!

Im dyin! pillow over the face and mom at the door "are u there are u busy" lol ya think lol

Oh Lordy, I don't know why this thought never crossed my mind. We will be in a cabin with all of our guests and wedding party. My grandma and mom will be knocking on the door, actually, my grandma will probably just walk in...yikes...looks like we're renting the honeymoon cabin for an extra night because my fh will not go to bed withut the nooki...lol

I've actually been wondering about this as well! My fiance and I have been saving ourselves until marriage...soo on one I think we will be so excited to finally be able to do it that we won't be able to wait....on the other hand I've waited this long and do I really want my first time to be when I'm so tired? I have no idea! I'm going to go with the former haha hopefully I'll get some champagne in me before...

Ours will be late eveing - i'll just attck him in the morning

I was exhausted and was SO thankful that Rick had had waaaay too many shots. We crawled into bed around 3am and I was so happy to be going to sleep. Then I'm almost out and I get the "lazy foreplay" (poking you in the back with it...), I couldn't say no on our wedding night and was so bloody proud of him - drunk, tired, 52 and he still got it up...lol

@Sharon: LMFAO!!! ahahahahahahahahahahha.

I love the pillow over the face thing. The obituary would read: "Jen was a great woman who just couldn't wait." hee hee

My honey bunny and I discussed this very thing the other day. He thinks there is no way. We are staying at the Sybaris the day after the wedding so I don't know if we'll wait till then or he'll "poke me in the back" in the morning like he always does. I'll know on Sunday.

When it comes to me and FH i'm def getting it in that night lol we'll be drinking so when i drink and around him i just can't say no and neither can he lol. we got an honeymoon suite for that night so i'm so looking forward to seeing how strong their furtunire is LOL, plus i was with him when he picked out the suit so i know he's going to looking SUPER FINE LOL, that i'm more then likely going to have to sneak away and get some any way

@ Mrs Sharon, muahahahaha! That's the best, so proud of Mr. Rick too!

I was a bridesmaid in my friends wedding and they chose to abstain for a year before they got married so on wedding night they were pushing folks out the door to get it in.

On one hand do i really want to do the lazy thing and just do it just because? I think that bubble bath idea and then passing out is the best option I can think of.

However I do feel you Mrs Phillips, I may muster up some energy when I see hunny bun in his tux looking all 007 on me. Booze + Husband in Tux = hanging off of a chandelier...

I don't think we're going to... but heck, i'll just let it play out and see what happens!

@Jaemi - Hahahahaha - I would be mortified and I am following that advice!

We've heard different stories and FH and I have talked about it and just said whatever happens but let me tell you that I'm not seeing that man the night before so I don't know about him but I want us to get busy! Plus I have pretty lingerie for FH!!

Ha! i just i had this convo with FH, i said are going to on that night and he said yeah if we are not tired..lol

We got it on If would have been any other night we probably wouldn't have though - we went to an after party and didn't get home until about 2pm. We also found out earlier that day that our honeymoon villa/suite thing was RIGHT above his parents and his sisters room. What are the odds. ugh But at that point we were drunk and didn't care.

The funny thing was that he insisted on carrying me over the threshold and between him being drunk and this big old dress he almost pitched me over the couch and into a lamp. He was like 'oh shit! Are you ok??!!'

@ Sharon, Rick musta told Greg about lazy foreplay...

hehehehehe

@ Jaemi, What did your mom say after that?? LOL

PS: Where do I get me some of the royal condoms? Lovely Bachelorette gift, don't ya think?

@ Sharon, I'm LMAO over lazy foreplay!

Me and DS got it on. Admittedly our wedding ended at 9 and we were at the hotel by 11:00 or so. DS doesn't drink so that was no problem. We were tired, but not THAT tired! Plus we wanted to take advantage of having a big ole king size bed, the awesome view at the resort, and the fact that there were no kids around...

My Fiance and I are pretty much expecting to be too tired. We are planning on ending the reception at midnight so fingers crossed that we will have some energy. Or Maybe there will be a big closet at the hall j/k

@ms. Marissa lol the chandelier, james bond suits get ya over the edge, i'm telling you and when it comes to us we live in different states right now so any chance we get we try to get it in, but i'll be staying alone the day before the wedding so i know that on the night i'm def going to get some no is not even in my vocab on that day

Ummm ... I'll probably be far to exhausted ... but because FS will want it and he'll want it BAD ... I'll just give in ... I'd rather spend some time after the wedding, in our room with champagne and sit in the jacuzzi and just talk about the wedding and then get to bed and sleep ...