Am I The Only One That Thinks I Will be Too Tired to "Consummate" My Marriage? lol!

It's funny because FH and I had this conversation. I told him that I don't care how tired he is, we are doing it. It's our only wedding night and we are going to end it with a bang.

We were too tired...but we did have some amazing morning sex!

I was well prepared for it, lingerie and the whole nine. But I honestly thought we wouldn't get it in. We both worked on less than an hour of sleep that entire day.

However, my beautiful big sister did such a wonderful job decorating our suite, we just couldn't let the candles, champagne, strawberries, body paint, and games go to waste.

I'm glad we did tho, I think we both would have regreted not consummating our marriage the day of.

Haha, not TMI. we were exhausted, so got into bed... put on the tv. I changed into my wedding night attire & well... didn't go to bed for awhile later ;-)

I didn't read the rest of the responses- but you're already planning for this? I know alot of couples who didn't- but you need to look at what you can do to at least TRY!

Find ways to make the day less stressful! Hire a DOC, cut back on a few things and minimize how much you drink.

And I don't know a single couple that actually got to eat a full meal at their wedding... You will be too busy talking to guests and stuff. Everyone will want to give you well wishes and you might get a few bites to eat. I'd recommend making sure you get a decent size snack before the ceremony, so you aren't starving when you can't eat after!

LMAO and spitting allover the darn moniter.

@Sharon....Frank is 63, and even if he consumes a bottle of Glen, I know I will also have the lazy foreplay. You gotta love a man you can depend on. I can't believe you use that same phrase.

In reality, we are all in the same inn. You can hear a mouse fart in this inn. I fully expect some "surprises" in our room from our guests. Also, our room has two double beds. Frank insists we will be consumating the marriage. I just told him to roll me over, and not to wake me. ; )

I was kind of thinking we were going to have a serious session of non-sanctioned sex on Friday night.

Do you think my bridal party would mind if FH and I "checked in" to our suite during pictures??? I with Mrs Lauzon in finding a closet

Re finding a closet....oh, to be young and flexible again!

Ugh I hadn't even thought about it! We are staying in a big house with our family and friends that are coming to Colorado with us, including parents, grandparents, and my little sister! We both thought it wiould be too awkward, and I started thinking maybe we should sneak out and run into the woods, mountain man style! I even told FH we should pack a big blanket to take with us! Then we realized that the next morning everyone will assume we did it and give us hell, so we might as well go for it! Looks like no forest fun for me! Probably a good idea though, a pinecone up your a$$ is not a good way to start the marriage!

You guys have me dying laughing here, actual tears! So hilarious, I love you all!

Amazing post, I thought I was the only one thinking this! I know I'm going to be freaking exhausted.....but somehow, knowing FH, we still will. Maybe I should lace his drink with something that night so I can get a good night's rest lol jk

We are def gettin it in. I just talked to FH about it and his reply was "were gonna have crazy sex on our wedding night" lol. We are a very sexual couple, and we get it in at least every other day. Sorry for the TMI. lol

I agree I will probably be to tired.. But hmmm were talking about men here!

@Meghan--we actually got a very full meal in ourselves at the wedding :-) We were served first and by the time our guests were done we were already done and talking with each other. His mother attempted to pull him away during dinner because he was "being rude" to his aunt. Which is bs because our rehearsal dinner was spent mingling with everyone from out of town. We lucked out there I guess.

To the topic at hand. We did. We didn't drink A LOT but we had also been traveling for 3 days with 2 kids followed by my mom and step dad and my sil and bro sooo we thoroughly enjoyed our alone time. All he could talk about on the way home from the reception was the "white number" he'd hinted at me picking up for our wedding night. Haha

The way we are handling our hotel situation is his fam in a suite with us and my fam with kids in another. .So we will be with the future in-laws and his daughter on our wedding night.. then alone for a week for the honeymoon

First time I was married we were totally exhausted but did it anyway. I kind of wish we would have waited, but then again, he wasn't the most passionate person so it probably wouldn't have made much difference. (It was our first time having sex with each other)

My current husband I eloped and got married at 5:00pm but by the time we went to bed he was so drunk he could barely do anything lol! Maybe when we renew our vows we can make up for it

We waited for the wedding night, so we were most definitely not waiting any longer...we ducked out of the reception the second it was not rude to do so.

And then his (newly married) little brother called us at about 10...so we called him back on our way to the airport the next morning about 4

We went to the reception, then the after-party, then the after-after party, and finally got back to our room at 1:45 am. We thought about doing it, but then we got wrapped up in rehashing the day, then we passed. the. heck. OUT!

Next morning we had to be at the hangover breakfast early to see everyone off, then Sunday we were both tired and crashing (and I get nauseated when I'm tired, which makes, um, REPETITIVE ROCKING MOTIONS quite uncomfortable). And then we had an early flight to Cancun, so we were starting to feel a bit jinxed.

Oh, and when we finally got to the resort, our room wasn't ready. I almost cried. But all's well that ends well - let's just say we made VERY good use of that private rooftop plunge pool when we finally checked into our suite!

I am sure that we will have plenty of time on our night ;-)

We have already discussed this...we are finding our way back to our room for about 30 mins in between the luncheon & the after party to consummate our marriage! We are both drinkers so I know once we get done at the after party neither of us will be up to it & even if we are, we wont remember it! Haha - so we're def finding some time to get it in before the after party!!