I am 42 and getting married July 3 this year. I've never been married and have been with the groom for 12 years. I have a venue that's paid for, my dress is almost done, I have caterer and cake situations handled. I've never been the girl who has "dreamed of her wedding since she was little", but now that I'm planning this whole circus I'm finding that I want more than a JOP wedding. Am I too old for this? Shouldn't brides be younger? Maybe I'm just being insecure? Thoughts?