Disclaimer: I really am trying my best to include all of my loved ones, but I don’t have the money to accommodate for everyone.
Im planning my wedding for March of next year and it seems like im being looked at as being rude. I told my mom the issues that I was having and she thinks that I should downsize my wedding.
For my wedding website, I have a link attached for people to send us money to plan the wedding, as well as our honeymoon. I didn’t think this was such a big deal because it’s not like I’m forcing people to give me money.
Also, due to budget and space, I can’t allow my friends to bring their spouses/SOs because the venue I picked won’t allow it due to it being over capacity. I’ve also made it so that only family is included in the reception also due to our budget. I’ve had several friends told me that they won’t be able to make it and my mom says that it is most likely due to those reasons. The last thing I want to do is offend anyone and I figured that since they are my friends they would understand and wouldn’t take it any type of way. So, am I in the wrong?