I'm a single mother in every sense of the word. My husband passed away when my daughter was 17.
She is my whole world. She got engaged this weekend, and I was left out of all the plans. Her fiance planned it all out with her Dad's family and their friends. I simply got a text that I was invited and when to show up. I am happy for the two of them, but after my invite I found out that is had all been planned ahead and everyone knew but me, I'm hurt that her fiance didn't have the respect as my daughter's only parent to include me in the the day every mother dreams of. I didn't go and I feel terrible a out it, but I felt so disrespected. Was I wrong, I've spoken with my daughter and she said I'm playing the victim. I don't feel like a victim, I just feel I deserved more than a text invite.
My daughter wants me to apologize to her fiance. I need advice.