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Am i wrong?

Jocelyn, on July 17, 2020 at 4:36 PM Posted in Parties and Events 0 11

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So all of our planning is postponed due to covid but before we had my bachelorette planned and I had 9 girls including me. Everything was great until someone informed me that my future husbands best mans girlfriend wanted to come.. now I’ve only met her ONE time. Do I have to invite her? Is it rude of me to tell her no? My fUture husband seems to think so...

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Latest activity by Alexandra, on July 18, 2020 at 8:10 PM

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Melle · on July 17, 2020 at 4:37 PM
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I don’t think you need to invite her. This isn’t the kind of activity that everyone has to be invited to
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Cassandra · on July 17, 2020 at 4:48 PM
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From what I know about bachelorette partys it is normally just the bride and her bridesmaids, not girlfriends of other bridal party members. It is the bride celebrating with her closet friends before she becomes a wife. You shouldn't have to invite someone you barely know.
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Dj Tanner · on July 17, 2020 at 5:13 PM
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No, she’s not a part of your wedding. And she’s not even a friend of yours. You have zero obligation inviting her along.
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Christina · on July 17, 2020 at 5:13 PM
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You're not wrong. Your bachelorette party is about you and your friends not every woman invited to the wedding. I don't understand why she even wants to go.
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Jocelyn · on July 17, 2020 at 5:14 PM
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That’s what I was thinking! It would be different if I was friends with her but I’m not.. I don’t dislike her but still I barely know her
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Jocelyn · on July 17, 2020 at 5:14 PM
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Ok! Thank you
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Jocelyn · on July 17, 2020 at 5:15 PM
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Exactly! I don’t wanna seem mean but I wanted it to just be close friends
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Kimberly · on July 17, 2020 at 6:28 PM
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I would say no. It's a party for you and your friends. Your best man's gf isn't included in that. Mine was my bridal party and my cousins.
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Eri · on July 17, 2020 at 6:40 PM
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If I were in her position, I wouldn't even want to come because I wouldn't know anyone! Your bachelorette party is yours, and you are not rude for not inviting her.
I'm not even having one, but I would not be inviting our best man's wife to mine if I were.
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Griselda · on July 17, 2020 at 7:07 PM
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No it is not rude since you barely know her!!! She should understand
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Alexandra · on July 18, 2020 at 8:10 PM
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No, I don’t think it’s rude. Your bachelorette party is a fun time for you, your friends and family. If you have only met her one time and you are not friends with her, you’re not obligated to invite her.
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